All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister, thanks very much for your question, and we implore Allah Almighty to help us serve His cause and render our work for His sake.

Actually, it is an unbecoming behavior of the husband to try to prevent his wife from wearing hijab which is a symbol of honor and dignity for the Muslim woman. The wife who is faced by such difficult situation should try her best to convince her husband not to prevent her from wearing the hijab. The wife is advised to resort to all possible means to convince him as in Islam a Muslim wife can’t obey a person whether he is a husband or whatever, at the expense of disobeying Allah.

Responding to the question, Dr. Sano Koutoub Moustapha, professor of fiqh and its principles, International Islamic University, Malaysia, states the following:

Thanks a lot for your kind question. Let me start with invoking the Almighty to grant you and your beloved husband strong faith. Truly, it is a very disheartening and unbecoming situation to try to prevent the wife from wearing hijab. I would like to tell you, dear sister, that we are all living in this world temporarily and one day we shall leave it and be over there where we will be held responsible for whatever we do in our lives.

Accordingly, you should never ever think of obeying your beloved husband in taking off your hijab to please his un-Islamic feeling and desire. You should and you have to please your Lord the Almighty. Furthermore, you should remind your husband that in pleasing Allah the people will be pleased with you. At the same time, disobeying Allah for the sake of pleasing people will lead to the displeasure of the people sooner or later. Therefore, he should be worried about Allah’s anger not people’s dissatisfaction.

It is necessary for both of you to feel so proud of being Muslims and never ever think of hiding your religion in order to please others.

I call upon your beloved husband to fear Allah and remember that forcing others to commit a sin is a grave sin and a crime in the eyes of Islam. One might be subjected to the curse of Allah, which will complicate his life in the future. I am sure and certain that there is nothing wrong with wearing hijab in any place in the States. It is true that the image of Islam is tarnished by wrong practices of some Muslims, but this is not an excuse to hide one’s faith and distance oneself from this great religion.

All in all, you have to find all means and ways of convincing your beloved husband that there is no way that you will take off your hijib to please his friends or his unjustified fear before his friends.

Having said that, I call upon you to keep praying for him and helping him to avoid all prohibited activities such as drinking. You have to make sure that he is punctual in his Prayers. Do tell him that Islam is practiced by 1.3 billion people in the world; therefore, there is no reason to feel shy or ashamed of performing your religious duties or practicing this great religion. Finally, may Allah protect you both and strengthen your belief and faith.