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Session Details
Guest Name IOL Islamic Researchers  
Subject General Fatwa Session
Date Monday,Aug 30 ,2004
Time Makkah
From
... 13:20...To... 15:30
GMT
From
... 10:20...To...12:30
 
Name
Host    - 
Profession
Question .
Answer In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Brothers and sisters, the session has already started. You can submit your questions. Please, make your questions short and clear so as to help us answer all your questions.


Yours,

Islam Online Fatwa Editing Desk.
 
Name
Umm Ahmad    - 
Profession
Question salam, I’m sorry for the delicate question... are a menstruated woman and her husband allowed to have other forms of sexual contact except penetration? Also everything that is "clean" from blood? I apologize.
Answer

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

First, it should be clarified that women are not unclean during their menstrual periods or post-partum bleeding. They can retain their normal daily interactions and intimacies with the exception of sexual intercourse.

Almighty Allah says, “They ask you about menstruation; say, it is ‘a kind of hurt’; so abstain from sexual intercourse with them until (their period expires and) they have purified themselves.” (Al-Baqarah: 222). This interdict from Allah applies only to sexual intercourse as elaborated in the following hadith when the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) was once asked by one of his companions, what was permissible for a husband in terms of conjugal relations with his wife during her period. His reply was, “Do everything except sexual intercourse.” In other words, couples are allowed to enjoy companionship including intimate relations so long as they stay away from sexual intercourse. Therefore, all forms of legitimate sexual satisfactions other than intercourse are considered permissible.

You can also read:

Are Women Deemed "Unclean" During Menstruation

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
NF    - Egypt
Profession
Question My husband and I are saving money to buy a home as we are currently living in a rented apartment. We almost have enough money to do so. My question is: Should priority be given to going on Hajj or can we buy a house and then save to go on Hajj. Neither of us have performed Hajj and if we perform it before buying a home, it will take us a few years to save up again.
Answer
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister, thanks you for your question.

We implore Allah the Almighty to enable you and your husband to perform Hajj together. As you know, Hajj is obligatory on a person who is financially and physically able to perform it. Scholars hold two views on performing Hajj whether immediately after having the means to do so or at a later time.

Some scholars say that Hajj is obligatory once one has the means to perform it. Others say that one who has the means to perform Hajj can perform it at a later time.

In your case, you have the two options. However, certain things must be kept in mind. Do you pay a lot for the rented apartment? Does this cause you a financial problem? If yes, then you can buy a house first and then you start to save money for Hajj. This is based on the view that buying a house is one of the necessities of life.

If there is no problem with the rent of the apartment, you can go for Hajj and when you are back you can save money for buying the house.

You can also read:

Hajj and Debts

Performing Hajj or `Umrah by Installments

Allah Almighty knows best.


 
Name
Maryam    - 
Profession Student
Question Salam Alaikom, What are the reasons that a man can use when he wants to divorce? Is it ok for him to divorce a woman that identifies any mistakes she has and is willing to change them for the sake of the marriage? Does the wife have the right to try to reconcile even if the husband does not want to, is there anything in Islam that requires that the husband must try to reconcile, or is everything completely up to him? Thank you for your time.
Answer
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dearest sister, thanks a lot for your question.

Sister, you, first of all, have to keep in mind the fact that divorce is the most hated permissible thing in the sight of Allah. It dissolves families and deprives children the family atmosphere. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The most hateful permissible thing (al-Halal) in the sight of Allah is divorce." (Abu Dawud, Hadith 1863, Ibn Majah, Hadith 2008).

The spouses should avoid divorce as much as possible. If they have difficulties and problems, they should be patient and forbearing. They have to try to work out their differences and seek help from their relatives, friends or professional counselors.

Due to the sacredness of the marriage contract, Islam asks both the husband and the wife to keep and respect this bond. Thus, each partner in this sacred relationship must treat the other kindly and properly. A man must not divorce his wife to bring harm upon her, as this constitutes an act that demolishes this noble establishment, breaks the woman’s heart, and possibly separates the woman from her children without any reason. Thus, the separation between a man and his wife [without just reasons] was considered one of the major and grave sins, and one of the most beloved actions of Satan, as was narrated in a number of hadiths. This is, of course, a form of oppression which is totally forbidden in Islam.

In this regard, we recall the Prophet’s hadith that reads: "Iblis (Satan) places his throne upon water, then sends his groups. The closest to him are those who (tempt people to) commit the most grievous of sins (fitnah). One of them would approach him and say: I did such-and-such. Iblis would reply: You have done nothing. Another would approach and say: I did not leave him (a man) until I caused him to leave his wife and for them to be separated. Iblis would bring him close to his throne and would say: How good you are!”

And since the husband must never divorce his wife in order to bring harm upon her without reason, it is also forbidden for a woman to ask for a divorce without a sensible reason. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Any woman who asks her husband to divorce her without an acceptable reason will never smell the scent of Paradise.”

Given the above, it becomes crystal clear that neither the husband nor the wife has the right to resort to divorce without justification. Divorce should be the last resort after all attempts of reconciliation fail. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Let a believing man not dislike a believing woman. If something in her is displeasing to him, another trait may be pleasing.”

And Allah Almighty says, "...And consort with them in kindness, for if you dislike them, it may be that you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good." (An-Nisa': 19)

A husband should accept reconciliation, particularly when his wife shows her wish for reform and obedience. Allah says: "... And as for those women on whose part you fear stubbornness, (first) admonish them; then refuse to share their beds; and (finally) beat them (lightly). Then if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance); indeed, Allah is Most High, Great. And if you fear breach between the two of them, appoint an arbiter from his family and an arbiter from her family. If they desire to set things aright, Allah will bring about reconciliation between them; indeed, Allah is Knowing, Aware." (An-Nisa': 34-35)

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
amna    - Pakistan
Profession
Question Assalamo Alaikum.. I am a 22 year old student married 5 months ago, while still studying.. my husband is in another city due to his job. I have to stay here for another 5 months till I complete my degree... I had to ask that several times: it happens that there are situations when I am pretty depressed because of the studies, burden of projects and stuff and I feel like sharing them with my husband, but often my mom advises me not to share every problem with him, he might feel fed up with me... I don’t come up with problems very soon but I don’t know what to do if not share with him.. Should I not share it? Also can you please tell me any du`a’ which i can offer to ask Allah Almighty for His blessings so I find peace and come out of depression? It would be a great favor.
Answer
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Thanks for your question, and we beseech Allah to bless your marriage life with peace, tranquility, and harmony.

We do appreciate to what extent it is difficult for a married woman at such an age to stay away from her husband while being burdened by academic studies and emotionally separated from her soul mate. However, bearing for five extra months after being patient for five consecutive years is not unbearable difficulty.

Here, we suggest that you make use of the following:

1. Try your best to move to the city where your husband works the time you finish your studies, and if there is a possibility to enroll in a nearby academic program, then don’t hesitate.

2. Your husband is also advised to visit you frequently until you finish your studies, if you don’t have the means to visit him or even enroll in a near program as in 1.

3. Try to satiate your emotional aridity during meeting your husband. This will allow you to unfold your hearts to each other, and you will see that there will be no agony or suffering at each party. Choose the suitable time to tell your husband to what extent you are suffering for the simple reason of being away from him.

4. We advise you to SHARE your sorrows and problems with your husband as this is the best way of attaining a good and positive result instead of being confined to yourself and suffering from within.

5. Try to repeat the following supplications from time to time:

Allahumma innee a`udhu bika mina al-hamm wal hazan wa a`udhu bika mina al-`ajzi wa al-kasal wa al-jubun wa al-bukhl wa ghalabati al-dayni wa qahri al-rrijaa
(O Allah, I seek refuge in You from worry, depression, helplessness, sloth, cowardice, niggardliness, and the burden of debts and domineering men.)

Rabbi innee a`udhu bika min hamazaati al-shshayaateeni wa a`udhu bika rabbi an yahdhuruni
(My Lord, I seek refuge and protection in You from the whisperings of devils; I seek refuge and protection in You from their presence around me).

Allahumma innee a`udhu bika minmaa ajidu wa uhaadhiru (O Allah, I seek refuge and protection in You from what I feel and fear from).

Laa ilaaha illa Allahu al-`azeemu al-haleem, laa ilaaha illa Allahu rabbu al-`arshi al-`azeem, laa ilaaha illa Allahu rabbu al-ssamaawaati wa al-ardi wa rabbu al-`arshi al-kareem
(There is no god but Allah, the Great, the Clement; there is no god but Allah, Lord of the Mighty Throne; there is no god but Allah, Lord of the heavens and earth and the Lord of the Noble Throne).

6. Don’t forget that being in the company of the righteous is a good element in keeping you away from the snares of the accursed Satan. May Allah protect you from all evils and gather you with your husband soon, in sha’ Allah.

You can also read:

Husband and Wife: Mutual Rights and Obligations

How to Overcome Depression

Serious Depression

How Long Can a Husband Stay Away from His Wife?

Allah Almighty knows best.
 
Name
Amira    - 
Profession
Question Assalamou aleikoum!

How many times must we read Ayat Al-Koursi before going to sleep?

Do we have to read it aloud or by whisper?
Answer
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


May Allah protect you from all sources of evil by virtues of reading ayat al-kursi

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said: “In Surat al-Baqarah there is a verse which is the best of all the verses of the Qur’an. It is never recited in a house but the Satan leaves: ayat al-kursi.”

The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) is also reported to have said: “Whoever recites ayat al-kursi immediately after each prescribed Prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death.” (Reported by An-Nasa’i and Ibn Hibban.)

Having stated the above, we can say that reciting ayat al-kursi has many merits as it protects one while being sleeping and it also guards him against the evil eye and keeps the accursed Satan away from one.

There are many reports which encourage one to recite ayat al-kursi upon going to sleep as a means of protection, but there is nothing specific concerning the number of times that one should recite or the way of recitation; whether aloud or silent.

Thus, one can resort to the way which is more akin to his heart and one can recite silently or loudly. One can recite the verse one time or three times or even more. The more one recites, the more one receives the generous reward from Allah!

You can also read:

Virtues of Ayat Al-Kursi

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Tasnim    - Algeria
Profession
Question I have to make up for some missed days from last Ramadan, am I allowed to fast on Fridays? It is easier for me since on Fridays I don’t work.
Answer

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister in Islam, thanks a lot for your question.

Scholars have unanimously agreed that it is mandatory for menstruating women and women who had post childbirth bleeding to break their fast and to make up for the days they missed later on (after Ramadan).

Having said this, you can make up for the days you missed in any days as long as you avoid the prohibited days to fast such as the days of `Eid, Tashreeq (three days following the 'Eid al-Adha), the day of doubt, etc.

Also, Friday is a kind of weekly `Eid for Muslims and, therefore, it is reprehensible (makruh) to fast on that day.

If one fasts on the day before or after it, or if it is a day that one customarily fasts on (for example, the 13th, 14th, or 15th of the Hijri month), or if it is the day of `Arafah or `Ashura’, then it is not disliked to fast on such a Friday.

`Amr Al-`Ash`ari reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah say: "Verily, Friday is an `Eid for you, so do not fast on it unless you fast the day before or after.”

Also, Jabir reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not fast on Friday unless you fast on it together with the day before or the day after."

Having stated the above, you are best advised not to single out Friday with fasting. You can fast on it together with the day before or after it to be keen to observe the Sunnah. May Allah reward you and accept your fasting.

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Tasnia    - 
Profession
Question Assalamu alaikum. Is it appropriate for women to play sports in public parks...(with appropriate hijab)?
Answer Wa`alaykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you Tasnia for your question.

Islam is not against sport as it has physical and psychological benefits. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) advised his followers to engage in many forms of sport.

As for women practicing sport, Islam has set rules that create balance between a Muslim woman’s right to practice sport and the necessity of preserving her dignity and honor.

These rules are as follows:

1- women must cover the `awrah.

2- Women must not apply any make up.

3. They must not come into contact with men in any way that brings them physically close together.

Based on this, if there is a sport that woman can practice while adhering to these requirements, then it is permissible for her practice it.

You can also read:

Sports: Definition, Etiquette and Ruling

Hijab and Practicing Sports in Mixed Schools

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
amna    - 
Profession
Question Asslamo alaikum
How should one make the supplication to Allah to help him on his studies especially if even after trying one hasn’t been able to do well. How should he reframe his thoughts and be optimistic?
Answer
Wa`alaykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you sister for your question.

Seeking knowledge is a key to gaining Allah’s pleasure in the Hereafter. Mu`adh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "Seek knowledge, for seeking it for the sake of Allah is a sign of consciousness of Allah; acquiring it is an act of worship; studying it is a glorification (of Allah); and searching for it is (a kind of) jihad (striving in Allah's cause)…"

It is very important to note that a Muslim must put all trust in Allah when he faces difficulties in this world. A student should seek Allah’s help, do his best, try all lawful means to his end, based on this hadith in which Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) quoted the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) as saying: “A strong believer is better and is more lovable to Allah than a weak believer, and there is good in everyone, (but) cherish that which gives you benefit (in the Hereafter) and seek help from Allah and do not lose heart.” (Muslim)

A student should resort to Allah with du`aa’ with whatever wording he likes. A student should implore Allah to help him make the best use of his study and to enable him to serve Him better. A student should always realize that success is from Allah Alone, which means that you should seek His Guidance.

In order to reframe your thoughts and to be optimistic, keep the following in mind:

1- Purify your intention for study, remember Allah’s blessings on you and ask for His forgiveness.

2- Never be slack in performing your obligatory duties.

3- Read at least a few verses of the Qur’an every day.

4- Let dhikr (remembrance of Allah) be your constant companion; say words such as the following:

Subhan Allah wa bi hamdihi; subhan Allah al-`Azheem (Glory be to Allah, and praise be to Him; glory be to Allah, the Supreme).

Subhan Allah, al-hamdulillah, la ilaha illa Allah, Allahu Akbar, wa la hawla wala quwwata illa billah (Glory be to Allah; praise be to Allah, there is no god but Allah; Allah is Greatest; there is no power or strength except by Allah).

5- Try to listen to good recitations of the Qur’an.

We wish you and all Muslim students success.

You can also read:

Tips for Students in Exams

Allah Almighty knows best.


 
Name
Nafees    - United Kingdom
Profession
Question Assalam Alaikum dear respected scholars in Islam, how does Islam regard Muslims fighting fellow Muslims? Under what circumstances is this permissible? Jazak Allah
Answer
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dearest brother in Islam, thanks for your question.

Fist of all, it should be clear that Islam is the religion of peace and justice. Aggression and oppression are forbidden in Islam irrespective of the victim’s religion, race, gender, etc.

Therefore, Muslims are not aggressive people. A Muslim is not allowed to fight a non-Muslim—without acceptable legal justification—let alone a fellow Muslim.

If it happens that two Muslim parties or tribes engaged in fighting each other, then comes the role of the whole Muslim community to reconcile between them and fix the problem. In this regard, Allah says, “And if two parties of believers fall to fighting, then make peace between them. And if one party of them doeth wrong to the other, fight ye that which doeth wrong till it return unto the ordinance of Allah; then, if it return, make peace between them justly, and act equitably. Lo! Allah loveth the equitable.” (Al-Hujurat: 9)

Based on the above, it becomes clear that fighting fellow Muslims is basically not allowed and it is the duty of all Muslims to interfere and end the fighting among Muslims if it happened.

Finally, we would like to refer to the fact that there are some situations in which the Muslim Caliph is allowed to fight a group of Muslims for specific reasons that are mentioned in the Shari`ah. For example, if a Muslim tribe refuse to pay Zakah and declare it as non-obligatory, then the Muslim Caliph may resort to force—after attempting all peaceful means—to correct the situation. It goes without saying that common people are not entitled to take the law in their own hands, for it’s the responsibility of the Muslim State and its concerned bodies to maintain peace, security, etc., and to prevent chaos and disorder from creeping into the Muslim society. The application of Hudud (Islamic legal penalties) is not the responsibility of the common people.

Allah Almighty knows best.


 
Name
Mohammed    - India
Profession Software Engineer
Question I am a software Engineer from India. For the last couple of years I am jobless due to some personal reasons. For getting a job, I need to manipulate in my resume saying that these two years I worked in some company otherwise my chances of getting the job is almost nil. Also, I need to produce some fake certificate to support my claim. I knew that all these things are haraam in Islam, but you know people in the software field does a lot like this. If I don't manipulate, then I may be spoiling my career in the software field and might have to take up some odd jobs like tuitions, teaching the computers with meager salary. What do you suggest to me?
Answer

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thanks a lot for your question.

1. All forms of cheat and manipulation are haraam (prohibited) and thus you are not allowed to produce a fake certificate to enable you to have a job. The act of some people does not justify you to do the same or to follow in their footsteps.

2. By promoting your skills in your specialization and your hard searching for a halal (lawful) source of income, Almighty Allah will never let you down.

3. For the time being, you can accept a job with meager salary until you succeed to find a better one.

4. Do not forget to ask Allah to help you get a good job in your area of specialization. Try this du`aa’: “O Allah! Grant me lawful sustenance which is abundant and blessed.”

5. Another thing we are to direct your attention to is the fact that one who occupies himself with praising Allah, while exerting efforts, is really helped. In the Hadith Qudsi, Almighty Allah declares: “He who occupies himself with remembering Me that he asks Me not for his needs, I give him better than that which I give to those who always ask.”

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
mohamed    - India
Profession
Question During Hajj, it is difficult for us to cook food. So can we eat some free foods (bread...etc) supplied by the rich Saudis? Here in India many people are asking us to reject such foods. They say "if you beg during Hajj you will be beggar throughout your lifetime..". Is that true? Also they say "those meats may not be halal, so Allah won’t accept your hajj and du`aa’". Is that true?
Answer

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you for your question.

People during Hajj do not find enough time to cook food for themselves. Some go to restaurants to have their meals. Some Saudis offer food for pilgrims as a kind of helping them especially those who do not have enough money for buying food and other stuff. Therefore, those who eat this food are not begging, however, they are accepting the invitation of the people who offer the food. So, there is no basis for what some people say in India that they are begging and they will be beggars for the rest of their life.

It is very difficult to say that such food offered by the Saudis is haram. There are very strict rules in Saudi Arabia regarding the issue of halal food.

Allah Almighty knows best.
 
Name
marta    - Slovenia
Profession
Question Hello, I’ve read so much about Islam and I’d like to convert, but I don’t feel like telling it to my parents. In fact my elder sister converted 5 years ago and they interrupted any contact with her, and I think I will hurt them too much if I convert as well. I’m very young and I cannot go away from my house. But how can I fast in next Ramadan and keep it secret? Thank you.
Answer
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dear questioner, thanks a lot for your question.

In fact, we welcome you to the fold of Islam, the religion of peace, justice, tolerance, and morality, etc.

Regarding your question, we do advise you to-

1. Try to know more about Islam. This is the first step in solving the problem you referred to in your question. You have to bear in mind the fact that Islam lays great emphasis on the question of conviction. So, to be a good Muslim, you have to convert to Islam on the basis of conviction and knowledge. We do recommend the following books to enrich your knowledge about Islam:

a) Towards Understanding Islam by Maududi

b) Islam in Focus by Hammudah Abdul Ati

c) A Complete Idiot’s Guide to Islam by Yahya Emerick

d) Tawhid by Dr. Isma`il R. Faruqi.

The first three books explain the Islamic beliefs and practices in a way that everyone with basic common sense and reasoning can easily identify with. They prove the concept of Divine Oneness in plain terms. The last book is a somewhat more philosophical exposition of Islamic monotheism, and shows how it is the most rational religion, and therefore the most appealing to reason and common sense.

2. Try to frequently visit the nearby Islamic center seeking professional counseling and help regarding the problems that you might face upon conversion to Islam.

3. Deal with you parents kindly and generously. Bear in mind the fact that Islam asks Muslims to be dutiful even to their non-Muslim parents. Don’t hurt your parents’ feelings. Show them the good ethics of Islam through your practice and good performance. You may conceal your conversion at the beginning—even for years—until the proper chance comes to tell your parents about your conversion.

As for fasting during the next Ramadan, you can do many things and we think if you think deeply, you will come up with many other things to do in this regard. Among the methods you can apply are the following:

- You are a student, so you stay many hours during the day at school, right? You can thus fast during the day and when you are back home pretend that you don’t have appetite for eating and that’s you will wait till you are hungry.

- Try to change your eating habits before the advent of Ramadan in a way that makes your parents think that you do not like to eat during the day.

- You can say that you are on diet - without making any lies of course - because a true Muslim cannot be a liar under any circumstance.

4. Keep on making du`a’ to Allah to guide your parents to the straight path of Islam.

You can also read:

On My Way To Islam: But How to Deal With My Parents?

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Abdul    - United Kingdom
Profession Student
Question Assalam alaikum brother

I was just wondering whether a pet hamster is haram to keep as I have been told that they are very dirty so that makes them haram?
Answer

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

There is nothing wrong, as far as Islam is concerned, in keeping animals for which there is no prohibition on keeping them (such as dogs and pigs). It is reported that some of the Prophet’s Companions (may Allah be pleased with them all) were in the habit of keeping animals for farming purposes or for fun and pleasure.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong in keeping hamster as pet, so long as you do not neglect it and nothing of its impurities stick to your clothes while offering Prayer.

Keeping an animal as a pet may even be one of the means of earning reward, as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said, “In every living being there is reward.”

However, we would like to say that the care and concern for human beings should take higher priority over the care of animals, and that the reward for that is greater.

Unfortunately, some people do pay a great deal of attention to their pet animals and spend large amounts of money on them when there are millions of needy Muslims all over the world who are in need of a single penny that is luxuriously spent on those pets.

You can also read:

Does Islam Encourage Kindness to Animals?

Keeping Pet Fish

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
n.ahmed    - 
Profession
Question I like to watch foot ball on the weekends. I think the awra of a man is from navel to knee.as you know the players knee is seen when they play. will it be haram for me to watch the games.please tell me
Answer
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dear in Islam, thank you for your question.

Actually, your question is very important and it requires an intensive research that goes beyond the scope of this Live Session.

That is why we promise you to conduct the required research and we will end up having a detailed view that will be published within the coming few days on Ask the Scholar

Allah Almighty knows best
 
Name
Soraya    - Egypt
Profession Accountant
Question I would like to know how to wash up after intercourse? Thank you and sorry for any inconvenience.
Answer

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister in Islam, thanks a lot for your question.

First and foremost, we would like to stress the fact that Islam is the religion of cleanliness. Islam requires a person to pay considerable attention to his personal hygiene and cleanliness.

According to the Shari`ah, ghusl (the purificatory bath) after intercourse is called ghusl al-janabah. It is obligatory to take a full bath after sexual intercourse. This is mentioned in the Qur’an and the Sunnah.

The proper method of ghusl involves the following steps:

1. Make the niyyah (intention) to perform ghusl for purification.

2. Wash your private parts thoroughly with water.

3. Perform wudu’ (ablution) except for washing of your feet, which you can do later while bathing the body.

4. If you have plaited hair you do not have to undo it, provided that the water can reach the roots of your hair.

5. Wash the entire body, starting with your head and the right side, followed by the left one.

6. It is preferred that the whole body be washed three times. The minimum is once.

Having completed the above, you are considered eligible to perform the salah (prayer).

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Fatima    - India
Profession Student
Question Can a Sunni girl get married to a Shiite boy?

Answer
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


In principle, marriage between Sunnis and Shiites is permissible. This is one of the opinions of the eminent Muslim scholar Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi. However, the Shiite man ought to be moderate in his views so as not to turn the household into a real battle. Although Sheikh Al-Qaradawi believes in the permissibility of such kind of marriage, he states it is not the ideal one.

You can also read:

Marriage between Sunni and Shiite Muslims

Shi`ites & Sunnis: Time for Unity

Overlooking Differences between Sunni & Shiite Muslims

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
najim    - Netherlands
Profession
Question Salamu Alaikoem: Is saying “Sadaka Allahu Al-`Azeem” halal or haram? Thanks for the answer.
Answer

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear brother in Islam, thanks a lot for your question.

Sadaqa Allahu Al-`Azheem means 'Allah has spoken the truth.' A Muslim normally says this statement after reciting some Qur’anic verses or surahs. A person who says this is doing so with a view to confirm and attest to his conviction of the truth of the Qur’anic statement.

If so, how can this be considered haram or innovation in religion? This could only be the case if while doing it one thinks it is a must for everyone listening to the Qur’an or reading the same to say so, in which case it is akin to instituting a ritual without sanction in religion. Otherwise, there is no reason to declare such innocent expressions as reprehensible innovations or haram.

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
yousuf    - United Arab Emirates
Profession student
Question Assalam alaikum..

I masturbate.. I have got into this habit from many years.. I am trying to control my habit also but still cant do it.. This is affecting me also.. as I don’t pray regularly thinking that I am not clean. What should I do to stop myself from masturbating? Any du`aa’ for it.. Give me some opinion..

Answer
Wa`alaykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you for your question.

We whole heartedly pray Allah to help you give up this bad habit.

Here are some tips that, we hope, will help you a lot:

1- Try to observe fasting.

2- Try to observe the Prayers regularly and forget about the idea of not being clean.

3- Observe moderation in eating and drinking in order to avoid stimulating your desire.

4- Keep away from anything that is sexually stimulating.

5- Choose good and righteous friends.

6- Keep yourself busy in worship and spiritual acts.

7- Interact with activities of the society.

8- Avoid gatherings and places that bring men and women physically close to each other.

9- Try to admire natural things such as flowers and beautiful scenery.

If you find the previous things useful, then it is forbidden for you to masturbate.

You can read:

Masturbation Fills Me with Remorse: How to Repent?

Islamic Ruling on Masturbation

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
khaled    - 
Profession
Question Salam alaikum sir:

I am a new revert to Islam. Do I need to say my shahada in front of witnesses and how many witnesses do i need? Thanks.
Salam
Answer
Wa`alaykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you dear questioner for your question.

When accepting Islam as a religion, Islam emphasizes that there should be no compulsion in religion. There must be conviction on the part of the person who embraces Islam. Another point that should be highlighted is that public and secret deeds are known to Allah.

Based on this, it is not necessary to say the Shahadah in presence of witnesses. If one says the Shahadah between himself and Allah, he is considered a Muslim in the sight of Allah. But to be recognized as a member of the Muslim community, one must declare the same in presence of two witnesses or before an Imam of a mosque who has been duly authorized to issue a certificate indicating the same.

You can read:

Must a Convert to Islam Get Circumcised?

I’d Like to Convert to Islam, but Should I Get Baptized?

I Have Converted to Islam: Must I Renew My Marriage Contract?

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
rayhana    - Canada
Profession
Question Salaam Alaykoum. I would like to ask you on the meaning about `ashoura (Passover). Please explain it to me? Thank you, Asalaam alaykoum.
Answer Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dear in Islam, thanks a lot for your question.

Regarding your question, we think that you are asking about “`Ashura'”, which is the 10th day of Muharram. On this day Allah saved the Children of Israel from their enemy (in Egypt) and so Prophet Musa fasted on this day giving thanks to Allah.

When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to Madinah, he found the Jews living there fasting on that day in remembrance of Prophet Musa (peace and blessings be upon him). Thereupon, Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) admired this tradition and said to the Jews, "I am closer to Musa than you are." He fasted and he also told his Companions to fast on this day. Later, before the end of his life, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) told Muslims to add the 9th. day also.

As for the “Passover”, it is a Jewish holiday beginning on the 14th of Nisan and traditionally continuing for eight days, commemorating the exodus of the Hebrews from Egypt.

You can also read:

Days of Muharram: Ethics and Significance

Virtues of the Month of Muharram & Fasting during It

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Sue    - 
Profession
Question Assalamu 3alaykom, with regards to Umm Ahmad's question, what if a man uses a condom to have intercourse with his wife while she is menstruating.. Is that forbidden?
Answer
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Thanks for your follow up.

Dear sister, the answer to your question is NO. The man is not permitted to have sexual intercourse with his wife during her menses EVEN IF HE USES A CONDOM. Thus, with or without a condom, the act itself is prohibited.

Allah Almighty says in His Glorious Qur'an: “They question thee (O Muhammad) concerning menstruation. Say: It is an illness, so let women alone at such time and go not in unto them till they are cleansed. And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allah hath enjoined upon you. Truly Allah loveth those who turn unto Him, and loveth those who have a care for cleanness.” (Al-Baqarah: 222)

You can also read:

Using a Condom to Have Intercourse with a Menstruating Wife

Level of Intimacy with a Menstruating Wife

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Muhammad    - Pakistan
Profession Business
Question As-Salamu `alaykum.

My question is regarding men dyeing their hair. Are men allowed to dye their hair? If allowed then in which colors? If possible then please guide me regarding that which of the products currently available in store are allowed?
Answer Wa`alaykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you for your question.

Islam is not against beautification and adornment. It is well-known that the Jews and Christians refrained from dyeing the hair. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade Muslims from imitating these people or following in their ways. Abu Hurayrah quoted the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) as saying, 'The Jews and Christians do not dye their hair, so be different from them.'

This can not be understood as a command. It is just a recommendation. Some Companions dyed their hair, others did not.

Based on this, men are allowed to dye their hair. The best thing with which to dye the hair is Henna and Katm. Henna makes the hair red, while Katm, a plant from Yemen, colors it black, tinged with red. Some early Muslims permitted dying the hair with black, other scholars say that the use of black dye is permissible only during war.

You can read:

Dyeing the Hair: What Is Permitted & What Is Not

Allah Almighty knows best.
 
Name
mohamad zaki    - Malaysia
Profession student
Question As-salamu `alaikum.

I just finished Maghrib prayer in congregation. The imam did not perform the first tahayyat. We just followed him. In the last rak`ah, he did sujud as-sahu. But I did not follow him because as far as I know, the first tahayyat is not one of the Prayer tenets. Is that true? What should I do actually? One of the ma’mumun made separation from the congregation prayer and completed it by himself. Is it allowed?
Please help me...
Answer Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


May Allah accept your Prayers as well as the other good deeds.

First of all, we would like to say that both your prayer and the prayer of the other guy who ‘made separation from the congregation prayer and completed it by himself’ is valid, in sha’ Allah.

However, we should stress here that you should have followed the imam in performing sujud as-sahw as this was better as the first tahiyyat is a mandatory act or Sunnah according to some scholars, and when one misses it one should perform sujud as-sahw before the last tasleem. However, if one doesn’t perform sujud as-sahw in the case in point, then his prayer is also valid.

Allah Almighty knows best.
 
Name
Malak    - Egypt
Profession
Question Assalamu alaykom wa rahmatu Allah wa barakatu, I am a 20 years old who just got married, and I am finding it very difficult to keep the prayers on time.... can I do them qadaa?

Answer
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dear in Islam, thanks a lot for your question and we congratulate your for your marriage. May Allah bless your marriage.

Regarding your question, you are to bear in mind the fact that Prayer is the cornerstone of religion. In this context, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Prayer is the cornerstone of religion…” Prayer stands as the second pillar of Islam after testifying that there is no god but Allah and Muhammad is His final Messenger. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Islam is built upon five pillars: testifying that there is no true god except Allah and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah, performing Prayer, paying the Zakah, making the pilgrimage to the Sacred House (Hajj), and fasting the month of Ramadan.” (Reported by Al-Bukhari)

Prayer has a certain time in which a Muslim should offer it. Allah says, “Worship at fixed hours hath been enjoined on the believers.” (An-Nisa’: 103)

Also, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) warned against ignoring offering Prayers in their due times.

Therefore, we do advise you dear brother to be keen on performing Prayers on their due time, even though you may face some difficulties when doing so. Bear in mind the fact that the more hardship you bear in obeying Allah, the more rewards you will get from Allah.

Finally, try to turn your marriage as a step in the way of bringing you closer to Allah by observing the religious duties. May Allah help you lead a happy marital life based on Islam.

You can also read:

Performing Prayer After Its Due Time

Can Imam Delay a Prayer for Watching a Soccer Match?

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
--    - 
Profession
Question As-Salamu `Alaykum.

I got married a year ago to someone who turned out to be less religious than what I thought. As a result of our marriage, I moved from where I was living to where he is living. The country where he lives is very corrupt. I was more stronger Muslim when I was living in my country and I was much more involved in Islamic activities. My husband prays and fasts and he tries to pray at the mosque most prayers but he doesn't do any extra fasting or Qur’an reading and doesn't always keep his eyes from looking right and left. I feel that my deen (religion) is suffering terribly.

What should I do? He is a good man otherwise but I fear for my deen. Would it be wrong for me to ask for a divorce so that I can go back to my country and live a more religious life?

Please advise.

Jazkum Allah khayr
Answer

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister in Islam, thanks a lot for your question which is a sign of good faith and keenness to abide by the teachings of your religion.

Reading your question thoroughly, we could see that you are passing through a critical stage in your life; so we implore Allah, Almighty, to help you be steadfast in the right path and to lead a righteous life based on Islam.

Although we do not agree with your husband’s behavior such as not keeping his eyes from looking right and left, we think you can try to reform his character and keep your family. By doing so, you will be rewarded by Allah. Bellow are some tips that could help you:

1. Don’t think of divorce now, and focus on keeping your family and reforming the character of your husband. As you know, divorce is the most hated permissible thing in the sight of Allah.

2. Spare no efforts in bringing yourself closer to your husband through all available permissible means. Try to beautify yourself for him, and be soft when talking to him, etc.

3. Try to arrange for a journey with your husband and kids so that you would have a chance to maintain ties of love and affection among yourselves.

4. Try to enhance your husband knowledge of Islam wisely and kindly. This may be done through visiting the nearby Islamic center, visiting reliable Islamic web sites, reading Islamic books, etc.

5. Try to seek professional Islamic counseling through a nearby Islamic center or our Cyber Counselor.

6. If after doing all possible means to keep your family and maintain your deen you still feel that your deen is in real danger, then you can ask your husband to leave for another place and your husband should be understanding and help you maintain your faith.

7. Don’t forget to make du`a’ to Allah to help you lead a good life based on piety and obedience to Allah and to guide you to what is best in this world and the world to come.

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Shaaban    - Tanzania
Profession Student
Question Asalaam aleykum,
I'm in need to know whether to stay in a friendship with a girl, expecting to marry her after five years is allowed or not?
Answer
Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dear brother in Islam, thanks a lot for your question.

Regarding your question, we’d like to say that you are to know that Muslims should have good relations with all people, males as well as females. At school, at work, in your neighborhood, etc., you should be kind and courteous to everyone. However, it is not allowed in Islam to take a non-mahram person or persons of the opposite gender as a close friend. Such a friendship would often lead to committing illegal practices.

Here, we recall the Prophet’s hadith that reads: “Whenever two strangers of the opposite gender are alone with each other, Satan becomes the third one between them.” (At-Tirmidhi)

Now, let’s ask: why don’t you marry this girl now? Is there any hindrance in your way of marriage? Is she a practicing Muslimah who observes the ethics and morals of Islam?

After answering the above questions, you are best advised to either get married to this girl—if you see her a good Muslimah—as soon as possible or to cut all relations—that may lead to illegal practices—with her.

You can also read:

Having a Girlfriend: Is it Permissible?

Marriage Steps in Islam

Conditions of Valid Marriage

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Umm    - 
Profession
Question Bism Allah Al Rahman Al Raheem

As-Salamu `alaykum.

I was blessed recently with a baby and don't know where there are more thawab. I currently work and make very good money which I like to spend for the sake of Allah. I have been having lately a strong desire to quit my job and take care of my baby rather than leave her for the maid. Yet I am so confused as to which direction will bring me closer to Allah. Please advise.

Jazakum Allah Khayran
Answer Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Congratulations for your baby, and may Allah bless him!

There is no clear-cut direction you can take as the issue, by and large, depends on your circumstances. If you are pressed for money due to the fact that the salary your husband earns is not sufficient to cater for the necessary household expenses, then you are permitted to work in public provided that you commit yourself to the Islamic dress code and you stay away from free-mixing.

However, if there is no need to work in public, and your husband is well off, then we have two other choices:

1. Working and earning money to help the poor.

2. Leaving work to take care of your little kid, and loosing the charities you pay.

Again, it depends. If leaving your little kid for a housemaid will corrupt his morals, and you will end up having a problem, then you should give priority to taking care of your child as this is your main job as a mother, and a wife as well.

If on the other hand, you can joggle the two tasks while having a committed Muslim maid and a close watch on your little kid, then there is nothing wrong in continuing as long as the real motive is to help the poor. But keep in mind that continuing with such a double task will become very difficult after sometime, and again you will be faced with the hard choice.

In all cases and under all circumstances taking the care of your kid and protecting him from even possible moral and physical hazards should take the top priority in your life. Keep in mind that earning money while ending up having a corrupt child is nothing! Just think twice before taking the decision and give priority to your little kid.

You can also read:

Welcoming a New-born Baby

Necessary Tips for Raising Children Islamically

Allah Almighty knows best.
 
Name
A.    - Netherlands
Profession
Question Salaam aleikom,

What is your opinion of the Salafi methodology? How correct is it according to your view?
Answer

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear questioner, thanks a lot for your question.

Generally speaking, the word Salaf is traced back to the early generations of Prophet’s Companions (may Allah be pleased with them all) who exerted great efforts in spreading the message of Islam. The same applies to those who followed their guidance rightly from among the succeeding generations. Hence, the Salafi is the one who emulates those who are well-versed in religious knowledge.

Modern Salafis are those who follow in the footsteps of their rightly-guided predecessors irrespective of how diverse and versatile their inclinations are. Some of the contemporary Salafis stick blindly to literal interpretations. There are others who adopt a moderate trend by picking and choosing what goes in harmony with the essence of Shari`ah, while keeping in mind the basics as well as other things that are liable to change.

It should be clear that there are different inclinations for different salafis. Some Salafis’ primary concern is the literal text. Others follow a more rational way of understanding the Islamic legacy. There are other Salafis who stick blindly to a specific school of thought. And there are others who consider the whole legacy of the Muslim Ummah their reference and authority taking the rough along with the smooth at the first instance, then picking and choosing what goes in line with their inclinations later on.

Despite the fact that there are different inclinations for different Salafis, the term Salafi is usually ascribed to those who gave priority to the apparent meaning of the text in deducing rulings from their original sources.

Moderation, which is a main characteristic of Islamic thought, should be the course to follow. It is inconvenient, as far as Islam is concerned, to stick to the literal interpretation of religious texts and turn a blind eye to rationality and reason.

A Muslim is not obliged to follow a certain madhhab or group as we, Muslims, are obliged to abide by the Qur’an and Sunnah, the main sources of Shari`ah.

You can also read:

Which Muslim Group Will be the Saved One?

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
sadia    - Pakistan
Profession doctor
Question As-Salamu alykum. Please give me fatwa about divorce. My husband distrust me and remains suspicious about my character. He fights with me out of anger & also often beats me. He said me single divorce four times, at the interval of two-three & four months. He also said me divorce on some bets like if you told about our relationship & problems to your parents or else, you are divorced thrice. If you go to your parents without my permission, you are divorced thrice. If you hide anything or tell lie about you or your parents, you are divorced thrice. But every time his intention is only to keep me under pressure and he wants to threaten me by these divorces; otherwise he don't want to really divorce me. He is not accepting this divorce as he said that there is no any will or intention to divorce me. And he thought that divorce only happened when said in front of two persons, otherwise not occurred. Secondly he thought that after "Rujoo" of every divorce, that divorce is canceled & thirdly he thought that divorce only occurs if husband really wants to divorce his wife. Because of his these misconceptions about divorce, he said me words of divorce frequently. Kindly tell me: is this divorce valid when there is no any intention (by heart & mind) of my husband to divorce me. As in Islam every work depends upon intention. Thanks in advance.
Answer Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


May Allah guide both you and your husband to lead a righteous life in a lawful way.

In your question, there are more than one point that ought to be clarified as follows:

1. Intention in divorce, and whether divorce needs witnesses for its validity or not.

2. Does continuous return or raj`ah after every divorce cancels the divorce.

3. Judging the case in point, and whether divorce in the case in point has occurred or not.

To begin from the last point, we can say that it is extremely difficult in such situations to hear from one side as the case can’t be assessed properly by a cyber Mufti. That is why we advise you and your husband to contact the nearby Islamic center or to approach a community scholar and present all the information about your divorce, and whether such divorce occurred during your period of purity or in menstruation as these are all essential elements to issue a decisive judgment regarding your marital life.

Moreover, we would like also to tell our dear brother (your husband) to fear Allah and to stop issuing judgments that are based on his own whims. Intention is not everything and getting the obedience of one’s wife can’t be achieved with coercion and threatening! Thus, he should be fearful of Allah, and try to put such weird ideas aside.

The wife on the other hand should try her best to please her husband and avoid all situations that derive their marital relationships to the verge of collapse.

Divorce in all cases and under all circumstances should be the last resort as the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said, “Of all things lawful, divorce is the most hated in the Sight of Allah.”

Thus, both you and your husband should hasten to discover your current status with the help of a local qualified scholar.

Concerning the first point, we can say that actions are usually judged by intentions behind them. But this can’t be considered a justification for a man to divorce his wife and then starting saying that ‘I haven’t intended divorcing her’. Each intention is usually judged according to the circumstances and the context of the situation itself. That is why one single intention can be a cause behind a different ruling in one single case. Moreover, there is a Prophetic hadith stating that divorce—even in jest—is valid.

As for the issue of raj`ah, it doesn’t cancel the divorce. The divorce will be counted, even the husband return the wife back to the marital life, and this can be done after the first or the second time of divorce. After the third divorce, the husband cannot return his wife back to the marital life unless she marries other man, and then she is divorced.

With regard to whether or not divorce needs witnesses to be valid, validity of divorce doesn’t depend on the presence of witnesses. However, witnesses may be necessary at the time of registering the divorce.
May Allah protect you from every evil and guide you to the best way through which you can keep a pure life!

Allah Almighty knows best.
 
Name
R    - 
Profession
Question I am completely confused as to when I have to take a shower after being intimate and when not to. I am not talking about intercourse but about the secretions that come out. What is the difference between mani and madhy for a woman? Thank you.
Answer Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Dear questioner, thanks for your question, which emanates from a God-fearing heart, since it shows your commitment to purification, which is regarded by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) as half of the faith.

Regarding your question, it is known that the emission of sperm (mani) or female sexual fluid requires ghusl (ritual bath), because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "What requires water (ghusl) is if you see water (i.e., sperm) coming out of you." (Reported by Muslim, no. 1/269)

Therefore, you have to differentiate between female sexual fluid and madhi. Male sperm and female sexual fluid are recognized by fact that they:

(a) come in spurts,

(b) with sexual gratification,

(c) and when moist, smell like bread dough, and when dry, like egg-white.

When a substance from the genital orifice has any one of the above characteristics, then it is sperm or sexual fluid and makes ghusl obligatory. Some scholars say that sperm is impure, but apparently it is pure, for it is only recommended to wash it off if it is still wet, and to scratch it off if it is dry. `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "I used to scratch the semen off the Messenger of Allah's clothes if it was dry, and wash it off if it was still wet." (Reported by Ad-Daraqutni and Al-Bazzar). It is also related that Ibn `Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "I asked the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) about semen on clothes. He said, 'It is the same as mucus and spittle. It is sufficient to rub the area with a rag or cloth.'"

As for madhi, it is a white sticky fluid that flows from the sexual organs because of thinking about sexual intercourse or foreplay, and so on. The person is usually not aware of when exactly it is secreted. It comes from both the male and the female sexual organs, although the amount from the latter is usually more than the former. Scholars agree that it is impure. If it gets on the body, it is obligatory to wash it off. If it gets on the clothes, it suffices to sprinkle the area with water, as it is very hard to be completely protected from this impurity, especially for the young, single person. It doesn’t require ghusl, but one has to offer wudu’ to be eligible for Prayer.

You can read also:

Washing Off Vaginal Secretions: A Must?

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Muhammad    - 
Profession Student
Question Assalam alaykum. I was told by different people that Gelatin was haram. Is it really haram? My other question is if it is haram to hang a verse of Qur’an in your Car?
Answer

Wa`alaykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Thank you very much for your question.

Before dealing with your question it should be clear that Almighty Allah has blessed His servants by creating all kinds of provision on earth for them and He has permitted them to eat everything that is halal (permissible) and good. Allah says: "O mankind! Eat of that which is lawful and wholesome in the earth, and follow not the footsteps of the devil. Lo! He is an open enemy for you." (Al-Baqarah: 168)

However, Allah forbids a limited number of foods that are bad and can be detrimental to one’s health. He Almighty says: "Say: I find not in that which is revealed unto me naught prohibited to an eater that he eat thereof, except it be carrion, or blood poured forth, or swine flesh for that verily is foul or the abomination which was immolated to the name of other than Allah. But whose is compelled (thereto), neither craving nor transgressing (for him) Lo! Your Lord is Forgiving, Merciful." (Al-An`aam: 145)

As far as the question of “food containing gelatin” is concerned, don’t worry regarding the issue of gelatin, for some scholars see nothing wrong if food is containing it.

The Fatwa of the Fiqh Council is that it is considered halal because even if it is made from haram meat it has undergone fundamental process of transformation through certain chemical changes that is called “Istihalah” in Islamic law. So, the ruling of pork does not apply to it anymore and we are still allowed to use it.

As for the second part of your question, there is nothing wrong with hanging a verse or surah of the Qur’an in your car, provided that you treat it with respect. Although we must never lose sight of the fact that the Qur’an was never revealed for the purpose of decoration but for living by it, the scholars over the centuries have approved such practices, for the simple fact that they act as spiritual reminders for us, engrossed as we are in the many mundane cares and indulgences of material life. Try to read the verse or surah you want to hang whenever you look at it. By this you will get a reward for reading it.

You can also read:

Hanging Posters With Qur’anic Calligraphy on Walls

Hanging Pictures on Walls

Allah Almighty knows best.

 
Name
Mourad    - 
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Question Assalamu 'alaykum,

I am a committed Muslim. I feel very strongly about all matters affecting Muslims. Most of the time my faith is strong. I say "most of the time" because sometimes I get some thoughts (which I am sure are coming from inside me, not from Shaytan) that defy my faith: "What if it turns out there is nothing after death? What if I turn out to be another one of those deluded followers of religions (who are very committed to their religions, yet to me are for sure wrong)?

I also think very highly of the Qur'an and believe strongly in its sacredness and reading it makes a strong impression on me. Yet, there are some very few parts of it that I find difficult to digest, e.g., the verses about its being OK for the Prophet (pbuh) to marry the ex-wife of his adopted son... I think to myself (God forgive me) it sounds more like the Prophet came up with these verses in order to allow himself to marry this woman...

How do these thoughts affect my faith, since a true Muslim is supposed to have "yaqin" (unswerving faith) and to believe in the revelation as a whole?

Please help.
Answer Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


Many thanks for writing such a question which truly describes your internal state of affairs.

Actually, what you are experiencing is no more than Satanic whispers and insinuations from your nafs. To appease your heart, we can say that the accursed Satan is approaching you in a very cunning way. He casts doubts into your own self, and tries to make a disguise by insinuating that you are a committed Muslim most of the time.

So, never listen to the whisperings of the accursed Satan as if you continue this way, he will totally dissuade you from the straight path of Allah. Keep in mind that heavy rain begins with a single drop, and with doubting some parts of the Qur’an will end up you doubting the whole Qur’an.

Thus, put those weird ideas aside and concentrate on reading the Qur’an while trying to find pearls of wisdom instead of reading it with the intention that there are faults. Actually, there is no single—even the slightest—fault, and when you face doubts just go to the knowledgeable scholars and ask them, and you will find that there is an answer to whatever distortion you may have in your mind.

Surely, with continuous remembrance of Allah, solid faith in the Qur’an as Allah’s divine book, and keeping the company of the righteous, seeking religious knowledge many of the doubts you have will vanish in the near future.

You can also read:

Satanic Whispers: Meaning & Remedy

Driving Away Satanic Whispers

Refuting Claims Regarding the Prophet’s Marriage to Zaynab Bint Jahsh

Refuting Claims regarding the Prophet's Marriages

Allah Almighty knows best.
 
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All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


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