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Dr. Zainab Al-Alwani
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Instructor of Fiqh and Islamic Studies, Graduate School of Islamic and Social Sciences
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On Women's Issues
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Tuesday,Sep 29 ,2009
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Makkah
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14:30...To...
16:00
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From... 11:30...To...13:00
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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
Brothers and sisters, the session has already started. You can submit your questions. Please, make your questions short and clear so as to help us answer all your questions.
Yours,
Islam Online Fatwa Editing Desk.
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Farah
- United States
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Assalamu Alaikum sister, I was engaged to a guy and he was eager to get involved with me physically like wanting to commit adultery with me before we get married to prove that I love him..I broke up with him..Did I do something wrong by breaking up with him..I sometimes regret breaking up with him because he prayed regularly, fasted and was a resident of Makkah...If I had married him I would now be living in Makkah..I am so guilty because I lost my chance of living in Makkah..Please advise..Jazakallah khair sister...
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Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
Not at all. You did what a righteous woman should do in any situation she is invited to commit anything to please poople against the will of Allah. You should thank Allah for saving you from slipping into this grave sin. The wrong is to start your life with a grave sin that is strictly forbidden by all divine laws.
As for living in Makkah, I ask Allah to make it easy for you and that He fulfills your wish if you intend to live there. But you should not regret acting according to your faith and ethics.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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Shahnawaz Ahmad
- India
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Govt. Employee
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I am married man , my wife has her period for one month 3 and on some months 5 what instructions are for her?can she leave daily prays for 5days in periods?
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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
It seems like your wife is having bleeding, or istihadah. In her case, she is supposed to follow her normal cycle of the number of days, like 7 or 8 days, and for the rest of the days she is to take a ghusl and pray, but she has to make a fresh wudu' for every prayer.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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Noor
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Asalama Alyakum!
I have two questions:
1)When performing ghusl after one is done with her period, what niyaa should she make? Please let me know how one should make niyaa in Arabic. I think I've been saying the wrong thing this whole time.
2) After using the bathroom, is it enough to use moist wipes instead of splashing water on the private area? The reason I ask is that I miss dhur prayer because I'm at work and find it difficult to wash up after using the bathroom.
Thank you
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Wa'alykum As-Salamu warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
1. You just need to intend in your heart that you are making ghusl to seek purification from a major impurity, which is menstruation.
3. Yes you can use moist wipes or the like as long as you are sure it cleanes the areas properly and you don't need the water.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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farzana
- Canada
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I have a young friend who is in great difficulty. She is 4 mnths pregnant with a 2 year old child whose husband sent her back to the home country with a one way ticket and very little money. His parents had come and said to him that the quran says that you have to obey the parents first and that his wife was not a good women etc.She has managed to come back but he refuses to accept her or take her home and gives very petty reasons like she wears pants etc when it was he who encouraged it.He says if we talk him into taking her back he will not be responsible for his actions. I am really worried for her. She is now staying at a friends house. Could you kindly advise us as to what is the best way to handle this situation.Jazak Allah Khair
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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
As long as she came here then all means of reconciliation should be exhausted. Meeting with the local imam, trying to involve wise members of the community and the like, in order to effect reconciliation, should be sought, especially if the grounds for divorce are weak. If after all these means the husband is still adamant about divorce, then a true judgment should be made between them whereby she receives all her rights and leaves with dignity and kindness.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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Reda
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What does the quran say about a husband asking her wife to be where he wishes her to be? My wife is living alone with our daughter in US and I in canada. I had left my life in canada for her but we had an argument when I joined her in US. During this her sister and husband threathended me, dictating to me how I should be runing my home and that my wife will do what she wants. So I left back to canada and it's been over 4 months that she refuses to come back to me in canada.
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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
It seems to me that there was no real agreement between the husband and wife regarding marriage expectations. In this case I suggest that you both seek counseling in order to see where the real problem is and try to bring harmony between eath other. If counseling brings no solution, then separation with kindness is the final resort.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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Aman
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What i wanted to know is that if one is aroused by by his wife and notices that he has had a slight leakage down below then is he required do to full guhsul or is he required to preform just wudhu, also does this apply to both of them if they had same reaction.
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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
If no intercourse took place and no ejaculation occured, then you are just required to wash the private parts and make wudu'. This applies to both husband and wife.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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Ema
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I have been married for 12 years.We have three kids. My marriage was an arranged marriage. All these years I have tried my best to put my marriage toghether in fear of my Allah. I did what ever i could. Since the beginning my husband had lied, betrayed me. I caught him talking to his ex- fiance.I have also caught him writing love e-mails to my sister. Recently he has commited fraud on my name, if caught I could go to jail. My husband is a good father. The only reason why we are toghether is because of our children. I want to know....there are good women for good men and good men for good women. Do I deserve to have a man like him. What about my feelings?. Is it ok to keep a marriage just for the sake of children?. What should I do?.I am drifting away from him and I fear I dont start liking someone else. What should I do?.
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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
I think you need to seek counseling. I prefer you go first to a reliable, qualified Muslim counsellor and tell your story honestly and seek some directions. If he is willing to go, then you should both go together and seek real solutions to your life. I think you should exhaust all efforts first to bring harmony, understanding and mutual feelings.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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Pola
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Alsalam allukem,
I have been married for 35 years now, have three children two are married and have their own kids, and one son
has graduated from university alhamdull'allah. and have been in Canada for 20 years.
My problem started from first year of my marraige, and had to stay just for my kids. I don't want to go into
too much details, but my husband and I become very different. right now the gab is very huge, all I can say
is because of me become more religious, and also ill. we both came to agreement that we have to be a part, forgot to mention
that my husband is very stubborn, and hates anyone talkes about deen.
Just I want to know according to islamic shareaa what is the hukem for the following situations:
1. separation
1. what are my duties and rights
and any other advices or recommendations.
jazakem allh kheran,
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Wa'alykum As-Salamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
A divorced wife, according to Islam, is entitled to her full dower, recalculated based on today's average if marriage took place 20 years ago. She is entitled to all her financial rights the husband owes her. If she has some civil rights, like housing for which was a contributor partner all these years, she is also entitled to. She is entitled to a reasonable compensation called mut'ah as a token of appreciation for the sacrifices he contribted to the marriage. She is also entitled to her emotional rights with regard to children, the respect and care she is deserves from them.
Allah Almighty knows best.
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In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
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Yours,
Islam Online Fatwa Editing Desk.
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