Many
are those fettered with chains of sin, and those captivated by bad
habits of whose damage and dangers they are completely aware. They stay
imprisoned by those habits after their wills are weakened. Habits have
their own power over souls and authority over hearts; they become
implanted in the human being, and turn into one of his inherent natures,
which he becomes unable to stop.
The
essential factor to get rid of a bad habit is to have a firm will, and
Ramadan is a divinely educational school where the Muslim believer is
trained to strengthen his will by not surpassing the limits of his Lord
in everything, to resign to His judgment in everything, and to execute
His commands and laws in everything. Fasting is a way to establish a
resolute firm will, a way for the human being to connect with his Lord
in obedience and submission, and a way to transcend beyond all bodily
necessities with all their pressure and heaviness, preferring the
pleasure and goods that are with Allah.
Thus,
fasting is a golden opportunity to rid oneself of bad habits, and here
is an explanation of the factors that help to do so:
1.
Having a firm will. I have explained
above this point. The more the will is strengthened, the more the
power of the habit is weakened.
2.
The length of the period of change. The
observer of the fast abides by the Shari`ah and is most careful to
obey Allah through abandoning his bad habits for a 30-day period,
which is enough if the intention of change is sincere.
3.
The comprehensiveness of change. The
observer of the fast changes the time of his sleep, his rising, his
meals; the ways he spends his time; the arrangement of his priorities
and interests; and even his emotions and passions, so the ability to
change becomes greater.
4.
The generality of change. Fasting in
Ramadan creates a general attitude of change that encompasses the
entire Islamic society. Therefore, each Muslim receives this internal
and external change, and this is one of the most important helping
factors for accomplishing change. The person willing to change will
not be alone, but will find similar change in all the people around
him.
If
you do not succeed in changing despite the existence of many supporters
and plenty of time, you may never be able to change at all, and, in this
case, perhaps it is not change you are seeking. If you are unable to get
rid of your worst habits in Ramadan, you have deprived yourself of the
blessing and wisdom of the Lord of the universe. He has ordained fasting
on His servants so that they may change their bad personal
characteristics, but some have instead changed only the time of their
meals. So do not satisfy yourself with being one of this group, but be
one of the wise, pious group who are keen on verifying Allah’s purpose
and the objectives of His Shari`ah. The real aim of fasting is to purify
the soul from non-permissible desires and customs. Reaching such an aim
depends upon renouncing bad habits, and holding on to them is a form of
slavery.