`Uthman
came from a wealthy Ummayad clan of the Quraish tribe in
Makkah. His father was a well-known and successful
businessman. `Uthman’s father provided him with
everything he needed to lead a comfortable life. He was
brought up in a manner like any other child born into a
wealthy family. Thus `Uthman enjoyed luxuries in life right
from childhood. He was a distinguished child who had high
morals. He was unique in his bashfulness and honesty, which
distinguished him from his peers, and he grew up to become a
man of great virtue, generosity, integrity, and modesty.
Successful
Businessman
After
his father’s death, `Uthman—although he was young—took
charge of his father’s business and proved to be very
efficient and successful just like his father. The business
expanded and grew. He was very truthful and honest in his
dealings and, unlike others, he spent most of his profits to
help the needy. He did all that he could to bring a smile to
the faces of the poor and needy, and so he became respected
and adored by many.
Journey
to Islam
During
that time the Arabs were worshiping idols and indulging in
many evil practices like burying their daughters alive and
shedding blood for little or no reason. Racism was prevalent,
and this racism made the masters treat their slaves cruelly.
Women were also treated badly and were considered as objects.
The woman’s sole purpose was giving birth and pleasure.
As
a young man, `Uthman was full of energy. He traveled to many
places for business. Due to this he got a chance to meet
different people from different nations and to learn a lot
about other beliefs, which were different from his own. His
views about the idols and the lifestyle of the Arabs changed
when he got to know the Christian and Jewish beliefs.
One
day when `Uthman returned to Makkah after his usual business
trip, people were speaking about Muhammad ibn `Abdullah. The
whole city seemed to be in a state of chaos because Muhammad
presented himself as Messenger of Allah and told everyone
that there was only one God worthy of worship and that one
should not associate any partners with Him. Muhammad asked
them to forgo all the false deities and worship Allah alone.
Although the Arabs knew Allah, Muhammad’s message seemed
strange, as they had long since worshiped other deities in
addition Allah.
`Uthman
knew Muhammad very well. Muhammad was a man of remarkable
personality and excellent morals. Though he did not accept
this belief immediately, he never opposed Muhammad or Islam as
the other leaders of the Quraish did. He remembered that on
many of his travels he had heard the Christian and Jewish
scholars speaking about the coming of the final Prophet in the
land of Arabia. Whenever `Uthman heard about the final
prophet from the Christian and the Jews, he hoped that this
prophet whom they spoke of would lead the Arabs into the light
of guidance and knowledge. He pondered over the Christian and
Jewish talk on the final prophet and finally he decided to
visit one of his friends, Abu Bakr, to find out about this new
belief. He knew that Abu Bakr had accepted Islam and that he
was very close to the Prophet (peace be upon him). Abu Bakr
explained things about Islam. He told him that Islam asked
people to worship Allah alone and to give up the worship of
all false gods or idols. Then Abu Bakr invited him to embrace
Islam. `Uthman felt that Islam was the true religion of Allah
and immediately embraced Islam on Abu Bakr’s invitation.
After that, `Uthman met the Prophet (peace be upon him) and
declared that he accepted Islam.
Those
who accepted Islam became prone to hardships, suffering, and
oppression. The Quraish tortured the Muslims in every possible
way, attempting to force them to leave Islam. `Uthman faced a
lot of oppression at the hands of his pagan uncle Al-Hakam ibn
Abi Al-`Aas, who was angry with him for leaving their
forefathers’ religion. He tied `Uthman up and tried to force
him to leave Islam. Nevertheless, `Uthman remained firm in his
belief and never gave in to this oppression. Finally, when his
uncle realized that `Uthman would never leave Islam, he left
him to himself. `Uthman, with all his might, defended Islam
and never gave in to the torture and oppression. Right from
the time he accepted Islam, he became close to Prophet
Muhammad and married the Prophet’s second daughter, Ruqayyah,
who was a divorcee. Uthman’s marriage to Ruqayyah was a
happy union; they both loved each other and led a blissful
life.
Migration
to Abyssinia
At
that time, most of the people who embraced Islam were the less
privileged and poor. The Muslims became a target for the
pagans, and they tortured the Muslims, even to death, because
they refused to leave Islam. Because of this, some Muslims
left Makkah and migrated to Abyssinia (Ethiopia) to seek
refuge.
`Uthman
along with his wife Ruqayyah migrated to Abyssinia. He was one
of the first to do so, and later other Muslims who were
agonized by the Quraish to desert Islam followed him.
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A
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An-Najashi
(the Negus), a Christian king who ruled Abyssinia at that
time, was well known for being a just ruler. An-Najashi, in
his power, provided the immigrants with all necessary
facilities for their stay. The Quraish sent a delegation to
Abyssinia and hoped that they would convince the king to expel
the Muslims from his state. The king heard both the Quraish
and the Muslims, and refused to expel the Muslims. The Quraish
delegation saw `Uthman and tried to persuade him to return to
Makkah, but their aim failed.
While
the Muslims lived peacefully in Abyssinia, `Uthman started a
business. Though he faced some difficulties in the beginning,
his business flourished because of his hard work. His wife,
Ruqayyah, gave birth to a boy whom they named `Abdullah. After
this `Uthman came to be known as Abu `Abdullah. `Uthman
remained very popular among Muslims because of his generosity
to the poor.
He
returned to Makkah from Abyssinia because of the false news
that had spread among Muslims living in Abyssinia that the
lives of the Muslims in Makkah were better, as the Quraish of
Makkah had accepted Islam.
In
Makkah, `Uthman spent most of his time in the company of the
Prophet (peace be upon him). He always tried his best to
help the Muslims who were poor and needy.
Death
of Ruqayyah
He
then again migrated with his wife to Madinah, which was known
as Yathrib at that time, in 622. `Uthman carried on his
business as a merchant and was successful. `Uthman and
Ruqayyah lived on happily for sometime in Madinah.
The
Muslims knew about Makkah’s merchant caravan that was coming
back from Syria, and was led by Abu Sufyan. They wanted to
attack this caravan, but Abu Sufyan was aware of their plan
and changed the path of his return to Makkah. At the same time
he sent a message to Makkah’s leaders, telling them of the
Muslims’ plan.
The
Makkans gathered a huge army and headed towards Madinah to put
an end to Islam and the Muslims, while the army of the Muslims
had only 314 men. The Makkan and Muslim armies met at a place
called Badr
near Madinah. `Uthman was unable to take part in this battle,
as his wife Ruqayyah fell ill. She died after a few days,
leaving `Uthman in grief and sadness. At that time, the
Prophet (peace be upon him) and the Muslims were fighting with
the Quraish at the battlefield of Badr. The Muslims emerged
victorious, and the news of victory reached Madinah when
Ruqayyah was being buried.
Union
With Umm Kulthum
After
Ruqayyah’s death `Uthman was deeply saddened. At this time `Umar
ibn Al-Khattab proposed that `Uthman marry his daughter Hafsah,
who was a widow. He refused the offer, as he knew that the
Prophet was going to propose to her. Towards the close of the
year 625, the Prophet married Hafsah.
Umm
Kulthum was the Prophet’s third daughter and he married her
to `Uthman. `Uthman thereby earned the name Dhun-Nurain,
“the Possessor of Two Lights,” because he had married the
Prophet’s two daughters, one after another. `Uthman’s
marriage with Umm Kulthum was as happy as that of the
marriage between him and Ruqayyah. Unfortunately, such
happiness was shortly lived, for Umm Kulthum died barely six
years after her marriage. She bore no children.
A
year after the battle of Uhud—two years after the death of
Ruqayyah—`Uthman’s son `Abdullah passed away. `Uthman
loved his son dearly and his death caused him intense grief.
The Prophet consoled `Uthman, and advised him that as a true
Muslim, he should accept the will of God.
(Part
Two)
**Amatullah
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