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By
Harun Yahya
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11/04/2004
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For
a believer, the scope of patience is not limited to enduring difficulties and
problems with calmness. In the light of the verse, [You
who believe, be steadfast; be supreme in steadfastness… ]
(Aal `Imran 3:200), throughout his life, he shows an undeviating commitment to
meticulously fulfilling all the commands of the Qur’an, to avoiding what is
unlawful, to displaying moral perfection in every situation, without becoming
daunted or losing heart. In short, he resolutely shows the patience and good
manners prescribed by the religion. That is because one can develop these noble
character traits only if one makes a steady effort. It is the people of faith
who exhibit patience when making such efforts. As the Prophet Muhammad (peace
and blessings be upon him) informed Muslims in the following hadith, they know
that patience is a gift for them from Allah: “No-one can be given a better and
more abundant gift than patience” (Bukhari and Muslim).
That
is why patience permeates the entire life of a man of faith and manifests itself
in all his acts and attitudes. A believer shows profound patience in compliance
with the command of our Lord, [So be patient with gracious patience] (Al-Ma`arij
70:5). He shows patience in humility and becomes the most humble person; he
shows patience in spending for the cause of Allah and becomes the most generous
person; he shows patience in not preferring his own self and becomes the most
self-sacrificing person…
The
following example in the Qur’an about the patience evinced in displaying moral
perfection will give us a better understanding of this concept:
[A
good action and a bad action are not the same. Requite the bad with something
better and, if there is enmity between you and someone else, he will become like
a bosom friend. None will attain this attribute save those who are truly
steadfast. None will attain it save those who have great good fortune]
(Fussilat 41:34-35).
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Patience
is one of the most important signs of a believer’s sincerity and efforts
to draw near to Allah
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As
the verse points out, Allah commands man to respond to an evil act in the best
manner possible and stresses that only those who are patient can be successful
in doing so. This example clearly shows that if moral perfection is to be
displayed, it is important to be patient.
Never
feeling frustrated in the face of events that are seemingly negative is another
attribute of a believer. Alternatively, when he has a blessing bestowed upon him
he never becomes spoiled.
An
individual can be very generous, self-sacrificing and very humble at certain
times of his life. Or, he may remain strong in the face of hardships. However,
failure to demonstrate these favorable character traits under certain
conditions, and thus having some limits or weak points, may invalidate one’s
preceding efforts to conducting oneself correctly. One must incorporate all
these values in one's character. These qualities must be far from being
imitative, fake, shallow or temporary; they must be components of an established
Qur’anic structure. Allah also states that consistently displayed good values
that have become an integral part of one’s character are worthy in Allah’s
sight: […
But, in your Lord’s sight, right actions which are lasting bring a better
reward and are a better basis for hope of salvation.]
(Al-Kahf 18:46)
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Endurance,
which entails “putting up with something”, is different from patience, which
for the believer, is a source of hope and happiness.
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Patience
is one of the most important signs of a believer’s sincerity and efforts to
draw near to Allah: one can only show patience in relation with his sincerity
and closeness to Allah. Believers who are committed to displaying these traits
compete with other believers in being patient. If making a sacrifice is in
question, they conduct themselves most correctly and bring all their material
and physical resources into play. Attention is drawn to this trait in a verse
which reads: […those
who are steadfast in seeking the face of their Lord…]
(Ar-Ra`d 13:22). Encountering a difficulty, such people turn to Allah without
harboring any feelings of distress or uncertainty in their hearts. This was also
expressed by the Prophet:
“Wondrous
are the believer’s affairs. For him there is good in all his affairs, and this
is so only for the believer. When something pleasing happens to him, he is
grateful, and that is good for him; and when something displeasing happens to
him, he is patient, and that is good for him” (Muslim).
People
often misinterpret patience and think of it as “putting up with something.”
This is but a distant connotation of patience experienced and felt by a
believer, since “putting up with something” is an obligatory form of
endurance shown in the face of a distressing and painful situation.
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The
believer is content with Allah no matter what situations he encounters. He
believes in His eternal compassion and mercy, and puts his trust in Him.
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The
patience shown for the cause of Allah, however, is not a source of distress, but
a great cause of pleasure and happiness. A man of perfected faith shows patience
in order to earn the approval of Allah, and thus does not become depressed. On
the contrary, with the hope of receiving the blessings and rewards Allah
promises in return for his patience, he derives great pleasure from it. Allah
informs us in the Qur’an that patience is distressing for disbelievers:
[Seek
help in steadfastness and prayer. But that is a very hard thing, except for the
humble]
(Al-Baqarah 2:45).
The
patience of a believer is so profound that his patience and imploration never
wavers, even though he cannot eliminate a problem or attain his wishes until
death overtakes him. He knows that Allah keeps everything under His control and
that he will earn great rewards in return for his patience. For this reason, he
is content with Allah no matter what situations he encounters, he believes in
His eternal compassion and mercy, and puts his trust in Him. If Allah does not
answer his call immediately, he certainly knows a greater goodness and beauty
are hidden in this. He never forgets that Allah answers all prayers and gives an
excellent reward to those who are patient. And His promise is true.
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Reprinted with permission of the author, with slight editorial changes. For
further reading see, “The
Perfected Faith” by Harun Yahya. |
