Once
upon a time in America five Muslim brothers – Mahbub, Osama, Ali,
Saleh and Bashir – got together to celebrate the Eid. It was an
impromptu affair organized hastily shortly after the end of the Eid
prayer. The two brothers who hosted the affair – Mahbub and Ali –
had contemplated inviting friends to their apartment a few days
earlier, but had never gotten around to the actual planning.
Nevertheless, upon returning from the Eid prayer, they decided that
they would indeed entertain company and went about the task of calling
several friends.
Most
of those who were called were unable to accept the invitation at such
short notice. Undaunted however, Mahbub and Ali resolved to make their
small Eid party worth the while for the handful of people who did
come.
While
Mahbub cleaned their apartment Ali went to a local halal restaurant to
get food. He didn’t purchase very much – just two roasted
chickens, some basmati rice, some salad greens and some sweets. It was
by no means a feast. It was simply a meal purchased on a student’s
budget for a few friends who had no expectations of an extravagant
evening of dining and entertainment.
Saleh,
Osama, and Bashir joined Mahbub and Ali later that afternoon. They sat
on the floor with the food laid out before them on pieces of old
newspaper. They talked, they ate, they joked, they laughed. They
discussed Islam and issues important to Muslims at the time. When it
was time to pray, they prayed. They enjoyed one another’s company
for the better part of an entire afternoon.
To
this very day some of those brothers who attended that small Eid
gathering insist that it was one of the best Eids ever. Though there
were only two chickens, roasted very simply, some brothers seem to
remember that day as if it were a magnificent feast. And although the
conversation lasted only a few hours, some brothers recall talking all
day long and into the night, laughing as they never had before.
There
was no television that day, no movies, no music. There were absolutely
no external entertainment factors. The only entertainment that
happened that day was a result of what those five brothers brought
into that apartment.
With
another Eid having come and gone, millions of Muslims have celebrated
in their own peculiar fashions. In the Muslim world, animals have been
sacrificed, families have been visited, carnivals have entertained
children, gifts have been given and a good time has been had by all.
In
America things have not been quite so elaborate. Employers often times
refuse to permit their Muslim workers to miss a full three days of
work for the Eid. So the Muslims in America suffice with what they can
do, which is to strip the Eid down to its barest essence: sacrifice,
sharing, brotherhood, sisterhood.
And
although the pageantry of Eid celebrations in the Muslim world was
largely absent in American Eid festivities, the Eid was celebrated
nonetheless. And throughout this new land of Islam, groups of five
brothers or sisters have gathered together and enjoyed entertainment
like they never have before. We should all be so lucky.