1.
It is mustahabb or preferable for one who has made a
sacrifice not to eat anything on that day before he eats from it,
if this is possible, because of the Hadith, “Let every man
eat from his sacrifice.” (Sahih Al-Jami`, 5349). This eating
should be after the `Eid Prayer and khutbah (sermon). This
is the opinion of the scholars, including `Ali, Ibn `Abbas, Malik,
Ash-Shafi`i and others. The evidence for this is the Hadith of
Buraydah (may Allah be pleased with him): “The Prophet (peace
and blessing be upon him) would not go out on the Day of Fitr
until he had eaten, and he would not eat on the day of Adha
until he had slaughtered (his sacrifice).”
2.
It is better for a person to slaughter the sacrifice himself, but
if he does not, it is mustahabb for him to be present when
it is slaughtered.
3.
It is mustahabb to divide the meat into three: one third
for consumption, one third to be given as gifts and one third to
be given in charity. This was the opinion of Ibn Mas`ud and Ibn
`Umar (may Allah be pleased with them). The scholars agreed that
it is not permissible to sell anything from its meat, fat or skin.
The Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) is reported to have
said: “Whoever sells the skin of his Udhiyah, there is no
Udhiyah for him (i.e., it is not counted as Udhiyah).”
(Sahih Al-Jami`, 6118). The butcher should not be given anything
of it by way of reward or payment, because `Ali (may Allah be
pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allah (peace and
blessings be upon him) commanded me to take care of the sacrifice
and to give its meat, skin and raiment (covering used for
protection) in charity, and not to give anything of it to the
butcher as a compensation. He said, ‘We will give him something
from what we have.’” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim). It was said
that it is permissible to give the butcher something as a gift,
and that it is permissible to give some of it to a non-Muslim if
he is poor or a relative or a neighbor, or in order to open his
heart to Islam.