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The Perfection of Prophetic Mercy
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By Dr. Sayyid Muhammad `Alawi al-Maliki **
Translated by Dalia Abu Bakr
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Aug
1, 2005
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It
is argued by many scholars that the central ethos of Islam is mercy,
as it takes precedence over all other values and virtues such as
justice, peace, knowledge, and benevolence. In his momentous work Mercy:
The Stamp of Creation,
Dr. Umar Faruq Abd-Allah establishes the transcendence as well the
epitome of mercy in God actions, attributes, and creation as well as
in the Prophet, his life and example, and how is this translated in
Islam into an existential, theological, legal, moral, and spiritual
commitment and accountability to mercy.
But
if this is so, how can we perfect mercy with an example to relate to
and emulate?
IslamOnline.net
is pleased to offer its readers a translation of a section of the
valuable work by Dr. Sayyid Muhammad `Alawi al-Maliki Muhammad:
The Perfect Human (Muhammad Al-Insan Al-Kamil). In this
translated section, “The Perfection of Prophetic Mercy,”
a great Islamic voice revisits and recounts the realization of
perfection in being merciful with the Prophet as an exemplar for
Muslims and all mankind on all levels.
The
Perfection of Prophetic Mercy:
The
Mercy of the Prophet (PBUH) with Mankind
God
Almighty says, “And We have not sent you but as a mercy to the
worlds.” (Al-Anbiyaa’ 21:107). Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) and his House, is the Prophet
of mercy, sent by God as a mercy to all mankind; believers,
non-believers, and hypocrites. His mercy sheltered all humanity:
men, women and children. Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him
and his house) was merciful to all creatures including animals and
birds. God almighty describes Muhammad’s pity, kindness, and mercy
to all the creatures:
“Certainly
a Messenger has come to you from among yourselves; grievous to him
is your falling into distress, excessively solicitous respecting
you; to the believers (he is) compassionate,” (At-Tawbah
9:128).
It
was even perceived by some that God favored Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) by describing him by two of His
names
It
was narrated that a man asked Prophet Muhammad for charity. Prophet
Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) gave it and
then asked the man, “Have I dealt with you rightfully?” The man
answered, “no, and you have not dealt with me in a beautiful
manner either.” The Muslims then got angry and rose up. Then he
(the Prophet) waved them to stop. Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) went home and sent him
something. He then asked him once more, “Are you content?” the
man answered, “Yes, I am. May Allah reward you with kindness in
your family and kin.” The Prophet then said, “You said what you
said and it left something in my companions’ hearts. So, what if
you repeat what you have just said now before them, to take away
what is in their hearts towards you?” The man agreed. In the
evening or the day after, Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be
upon him and his house) told his companions, “This man showed his
dissatisfaction so I increased what I gave him to let him be
satisfied.” He turned then to the man and asked him “isn’t
that right?” The man answered: “Yes, may God reward you with
kindness in family and kin.”
The
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) then
commented, “The example of me and this (man) is like that of a man
whose camel went astray. People following the camel only increased
its unwillingness. The man called to them, ‘leave me and my camel
alone. I am more gentle and knowledgeable about it.’ He then
turned to the camel, offering it some vegetation from the earth. He
then called it back until it came forth, kneeled down, put the
saddle on it and rode it away. Had I left you with what the man said
you would have killed him and he would go to Hellfire” (Ahmed).
It
was also narrated that Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon
him and his house) said, “I do not want any one of you to tell me
off about any of my Companions. I want to go out to (meet) you with
a free heart.” (Abu Dawud).
His
pity and mercy to his people were manifested in lightening their
load, making their obligations easy, in avoiding certain things for
fear that they would become obligations upon the people. Among his
sayings in this regard is, “was it not for fear of tiring my
nation, I would have asked them to use a miswak (tooth stick)
with each ablution.” His mercy was reflected in what he said about
the Qiyam-Al-Layl (Night Vigil Prayer), meaning that one should not
do it all night long; continuous fasting; and his disliking to enter
the Ka`bah so that his nation would not become obstinate [about
following him in that]. His mercy was also manifested in his prayer
that God might turn his cursing of any one of them unto mercy.
Whenever he heard a child crying during prayers, he used to shorten
the prayer1.
Prophet
Muhammad prayed to God, “O Allah! Whoever I insulted or cursed,
turn this into charity, mercy, a prayer, cleansing, and an
immolation with which you bring him closer to You on Doomsday.”
When his people did not believe him, Jibreel (the Archangel) came to
him and said, “God Almighty heard the sayings and accusations of
your people and He, Almighty, asked the angel of the mountains to
obey any order from you against them. The angel of the mountains
called Prophet Muhammad and said, “Ask for whatever you want, and
I would crush them with the akhshabin (surrounding
mountains).” Yet, Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon
him and his house) said, “No, but I hope that Allah will bring out
of their offspring people who worship Allah alone with no
associates.”
Ibn
Al Monkader narrated that Jibreel told Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house), “God commanded the sky, the
earth and the mountains to obey your orders.” The Prophet
answered, “I delay my nation and Maybe Allah will induce them to
repentance.” A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said,
“Never was the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his
house) left to make a choice between two matters but he would prefer
the easier among them.” Ibn Mas`ud (may Allah be pleased with him)
told us that Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him and
his house) preferred “positive” preaching to preclude pessimism
and boredom
A’ishah
narrated that she once found difficulty in riding a horse, so she
kept reining it in repeatedly. The Prophet (peace and blessings be
upon him and his house) then said, “You must have gentleness2.”
Among
the examples of his general mercy is his mercy with the hypocrites
by saving them from death and captivity for their outward following
of Islam in this life.
From
his comprehensive mercy is his mercy with the non-believers by
lifting the punishment of annihilation in this world.
As for past nations, when Allah, majestic in His praise, sent
them a messenger and they disbelieve him, they would be and tortured
and annihilated. God almighty tells us how nations of Noah, `Aad,
Thamoud, and Lout and others were tortured and how were they
rewarded for their mockery.
As
for the infidels among the nation of Muhammad, their general
chastisement by annihilation was lifted in honor of this gracious
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) whom Allah,
majestic in His praise, has sent as mercy for the worlds.
The
Mercy of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) with Family and Children
In
his Hadith, Imam Moslem narrates that `Amr Ibn Sa`id reported that
`Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said, “I have never met one
more merciful with children. He also said, “Ibrahim (the
Prophet’s son) was being breastfed by a wet nurse in a village on
the outskirts of Madinah. He (the Prophet) used to rush to enter the
house with smoke coming out of it (the wet nurse’s husband was a
metal smith). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his
house) would take his grandson, kiss him, and then return him. So
when Ibrahim died, the Prophet said, “Ibrahim is my son. He died
while still suckling. Verily, he will have two wet nurses to
breastfeed him in Paradise.” Meaning they will complete his
two-year weaning period, as he died at sixteen or seventeen months
of age.” (An-Nawawi)
His
mercy with his family was shown in the way he used to assist them
with housework.
Al-Aswad
mentioned that he asked `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her)
what the Prophet did at home. She answered, “He was humble in the
common service of his family. But, when time for prayer came, he
used to go and pray.” He (peace and blessings be upon him and his
house) was not like tyrannical men. A lot of times, he (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) used to serve himself. It’s
mentioned in Ahmad’s Mosnad and others that `A’ishah (may
Allah be pleased with her) said, “The Prophet (peace and blessings
be upon him and his house) used to sew his clothes, mend his
sandals, and do what other men do in their homes.”
His
Mercy With Children, Orphans, Widows, and the Sick.
The
two sheikhs (Bukhari and Muslim) narrate on the authority of `Anas
(may Allah be pleased with him) that Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) said, “I start the prayers,
intending to lengthen them. I then hear
a child crying so I make them shorter, knowing how emotional a
child’s mother gets.”
An
example of his mercy (peace and blessings be upon him and his house)
with the children is that he used stroke their heads and kiss them.
It was mentioned in the two books of Al-Bukhari and Muslim that
`A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said that the Prophet
Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) kissed
Al-Hassan and Al-Hussein (his grandsons) while Al-Aqra’ ibn Hobis
Al Tamimi was present. So Al Aqra’ said, “I have ten children. I
have never kissed any of them!” Prophet Muhammad (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) looked at him and said, “He
who does not have mercy will not have mercy upon him.”
It
is in the two authenticated books that `A’ishah (may Allah be
pleased with her) said, “A nomad once told Prophet Muhammad (peace
and blessings be upon him and his house), “you kiss the children
and we never do!” Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon
him and his house) said, “Has Allah withdrawn mercy out of your
hearts?” Meaning that he who has mercy in his heart for children
drives him to kiss them. And he who gets mercy withdrawn from his
heart withholds from kissing them.
The
two sheikhs and At-Tirmidhi narrate that Al-Bara’ (may Allah be
pleased with him) said, “I saw the Prophet of Allah (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) carrying Al-Hassan on his
shoulder, saying, “Oh Allah! I love him so love him.”
At-Tirmidhi
narrates that `Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) said, “The
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) was asked,
“Which member of your family do you love the most?” He said,
“Al-Hassan and Al-Hussein.” He used to tell Fatimah (may Allah
be pleased with her), “Bring me my two sons” and then he would
embrace them closely, may Allah be pleased with them.
Among
the examples of his mercy and his love to please children happy that
whenever he (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) was
given the first of the harvest of fruits, he would give it to give
it to the children in his circle. At-Tabrani, said that Ibn `Abbas
(may Allah be pleased with them) said that the Prophet (peace and
blessing be upon him) used to hold the first of any seasonal
harvest, he used put it on his eyes then on his lips and say “Oh
Allah! Like you have made us see its beginning (of the season),
allow us to see its end.” Then he would give it to any child
sitting around him3.”
An
example of his mercy was his crying on the passing of his son
Ibrahim (may Allah be pleased with him). On the authority of `Anas
(may Allah be pleased with him), “The Prophet of Allah (peace and
blessings be upon him and his house) entered the room while Ibrahim
was dying. Upon that, his eyes started dropping tears. Then
`Abdur-Rahman ibn `Awf said, ‘Even you, messenger of Allah!’
Then he said ‘Oh Ibn `Awf! It is but mercy.’ He continued
(crying) some more and then said, “The eyes weep, the heart is
full of grief, and we are nothing but that which does not please our
Lord. Verily, we are sorrowed for your departure O! Ibrahim.”
(Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
On
the authority of Osama Ibn Zaid (may Allah be pleased with him and
his father) when the Prophet of Allah (peace and blessings be upon
him and his house) was handed his daughter’s son who was dying,
his eyes flooded with tears (peace and blessings be upon). Sa`d then
told him, “What is this, Prophet of Allah!” He said, “This is
a mercy that exalted Allah has made in the hearts of His servants.
And surely Allah has mercy to merciful ones among His servants.”
(Agreed upon)
From
his mercy is that he (peace and blessing be upon him and his house)
never used to disdain from walking along with a widow or with a poor
person and fulfill their needs 4. He used to visit weak and sick
Muslims and attend their funerals 5. He used to treat orphans well and
charitably. He used to commend people to sponsor them and treat them
with excellence and he also used to announce the consequent virtues
of that saying, “I and a patron of an orphanage are as close in
Paradise (while waving with the index and middle finger and parting
them 6.” He also said that the best house in Muslim houses is the
one with an orphan being treated well in it. 7”
Of
his mercy is when he used to see any of his companions in a state of
stress or misfortune, he would feel deep sorrow for that, have pity,
and cry, being affected by the circumstances. He went once with
`Abdur-Rahman ibn `Awf and others to visit Sa`d Ibn `Obabah. Upon
seeing him, he cried and everyone with him then cried 8. He cried and
kissed `Othman Ibn Maz`oun after he died. `A’ishah then said that
she saw the tears of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him
and his house) flow on `Othman’s cheeks 9. In another version, it
was narrated that The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and
his house) kissed `Othman between his eyes and cried for a long time
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His
Mercy With Animals
He
(peace and blessings be upon him and his house) used to commend
having mercy on animals. He used to forbid his companions from
hurting them, tiring them, overburdening them with heavy loads for
long periods, torturing them, or pushing them beyond their limits,
for that is a form of suffering.
Once
the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) passed
by a camel that was so emaciated its back was one with its abdomen.
Upon that, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his
house) said, “Fear Allah with regard to livestock. Ride them in a
fitting way and eat them when they are in good condition.11”
He
once entered the garden of man from the Ansar (Muslims of Madinah)
and there was a camel. When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon
him and his house) saw the camel it froze and its eyes started
watering. Then the Prophet of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him
and his house) came to it and rubbed its ears so it calmed down.
Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his house)
said, “Who is the owner of this camel? Whose camel is this?” A
young man from the Ansar told him (peace and blessings be upon him
and his house),”O Messenger of Allah, it belongs to me.” Then he
told him (peace and blessings be upon him and his house), “Do you
not fear Allah with regard to this beast which Allah has let you
own? It complained to me that you starve it and tire it by
overworking it and using it beyond its capacity.12”
He
(peace and blessings be upon him and his house) used to forbid
burdening an animal by keeping it standing or sitting on it for a
long time unnecessarily. He saw some people sitting on animals so he
commented, “Keep them safe and sound when riding them and when
leaving them, don’t use them as chairs for your side talks in the
streets and markets. A ridden animal might be better than its rider
and might remember and mention God more than its rider does.13”
Prophet
Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) called not
to kill even a frog and he said, “Its croaking is tasbeeh
(praising God).” 14
Prophet
Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him and his house) once said,
“A woman was doomed to enter the Fire because of a cat. She
imprisoned it and neither fed it nor set it free to eat the rodents
of the earth.” 15
Prophet
Muhammad also called for not harassing animals by goading them to
hurt or cause harm to each other.
Prophet
Muhammad warned against any human being causing a bird to feel panic
about its little offspring. Someone took two chicks of a bird
(hamra), which came in panic searching for its chicks. Prophet
Muhammad (Peace and blessings be upon him and his house) then asked,
“Who has distressed it by taking its chicks?” Then he asked them
to return the chicks. The Prophet once passed by a burned out
anthill. When the Prophet saw it he asked, “Who has burned it?”
When he was informed of who had done it, he said, “Only the Lord
of Fire has the right to punish with fire.16”
It
was also reported that Prophet Muhammad prohibited the killing of a
bird for the sake of pleasure and not for a specific beneficial
need, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his house)
said, “Anyone who would kill a bird, this bird would come on
Doomsday and say, “God, this person killed me for pleasure and not
for benefit. 17”
It
was also reported that Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon
him and his house) called for mercy and perfection in slaughter. He
saw a person preparing a lamb, laying it down while he was still
sharpening his knife. Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon
him and his house) then commented, “Do you want to kill it twice?
Sharpen your knife before you lay it down.” 18
He
prohibited taking any animal or any living creature as a target for
shooting. 19
*Dr.
Sayyid Muhammad `Alawi al-Maliki (may
Allah have mercy on his soul) was a highly respected, eminent
scholar in Makkah. He was argued to be the imam of Hadith of his
time. He came from one of the most respected families in Makkah
which produced great scholars, imams, and preachers.
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All
of this is mentioned in sahih (authentic) Hadith books.
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Mentioned
in the Sahih by Muslim
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Narrated
by Ibn Al- Sanii from Abu Hurairah, A-Hafez Al Haithami said it
was narrated by Al-Tabarani in Al-Kabeer and As-Sagheer and the
narrators of As-Sagheer are the narrators of authentic hadith.
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Narrated
by Al-Nasa’i
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Narrated
by Abu Ya`li and at-Tabarani.
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Narrated
by Al-Bukhari.
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Narrated
by Ibn Majah.
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Narrated
by the Al-Bukhari and Muslim.
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Narrated
by at-Tirmidhi.
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Narrated
by Ibn al-Jouzi.
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Narrated
by Abu Dawud and Ibn Khozimah in his Sahih.
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Narrated
by imam Ahmed and Abu Dawud and Al Hakim in the Mustadrak.
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Narrated
by Imam Ahmed and Abu Yali and At-Tabarani.
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Narrated
by An-Nas'ai.
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Narrated
by Al-Bukhari.
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Narrated
by Abu Dawud.
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Narrated
by Al-Nasa'i.
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Narrated
by Al-Tabarani.
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Narrated
by Bukhari and Muslim.
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