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Don’t
be embarrassed to ask your practitioner a few questions before you make
your decision.
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Case:
Hind came to me after being with another healer for a year. She was experiencing
digestive problems and constant vertigo. She had also been diagnosed with a
pre-cancerous breast lump. She had made progress with the other healer but after
a year felt that her progress was slow and she was starting to question some of
the advice she was being given. At the same time she was no longer able to
afford the high fees charged by her healer.
Hind was a seeker of knowledge. A week after contacting me she wrote twice
asking once for the name of a homeopath I knew and another time asking if she
should visit a Chinese doctor with her cousin who had an appointment the next
day. Over the course of the next two weeks I spoke to her about her case and her
experience with the healer she had been seeing and was shocked with the things
she had been told. I could see that Hind was a very trusting and generous
person. From what I could understand about her case she had been treated in a
very unethical and unprofessional manner and had spent thousands of dollars in
less than a year for the simple treatments she was given. Hind had already been
quite open with me about a number of things and she had not even asked me many
questions about my experience or qualifications. I became worried about Hind and
told her that before I took her case I would give her a list of guidelines to
follow for choosing a healthcare practitioner. I wanted to ensure that any other
health care practitioner would not take advantage of her and that she would be
able to distinguish for herself what was right and wrong for her.
I
gave Hind a list of ten things she needed to ask any health care practitioner
before she agreed to let them take her case. I also advised her that this same
list should be used for doctors. Some of the questions on the list she could
answer herself by reading a brochure the practitioner provided or by asking
friends who had seen them. However, by the time she arrived at her appointment I
recommended that she have every question on the list answered. I instructed
her to ask:
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Where
did the person study and what degrees, certifications and accreditations do
they have?
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How
long has the person been practicing their craft?
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What
are their fees and how long does she expect to be seeing them before she
starts to heal?
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What
is the person’s policy on healing remedies?
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What
is the practitioner's policy on transferring records and cooperating with
other healers?
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How
much experience does the practitioner have with her ailment?
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Does
the practitioner listen to the client?
The
most important questions to pose to any practitioner are the ones about where
they studied and the experience they have had. Some practitioners have studied
at prestigious universities but have had little practical experience. Other
practitioners have had vast experience but have studied at low-rated or even
online universities. Still, other practitioners may have years of experience and
prestigious certifications but very little intuitive ability about people in
general which is a great asset in the field of healing. Finally, some successful
practitioners have had little experience or study but seem to possess a great
and powerful intuitive ability to know what is wrong with people and how to heal
them. Some of the best of these types become intuitive healers. It was important
for Hind to know where her health care practitioner fell in this list and if she
felt comfortable with that or not. Some people feel comfortable with new
graduates or practitioners with little experience because they like the
freshness and newness of their ideas. Other people only consider a practitioner
legitimate if they have been in practice for more than ten years. Still others
will only see someone by recommendation from a friend. There is really no
universal standard for what is best. However, what is universal is that the
client should know what they are paying for and be able to make their own
decisions based on complete information.
I
shared with Hind that the second important question to ask her health care
practitioner, herbalist, doctor, homeopath, acupuncturist or any healer is what
their fees are and how long they expect to see her for. The best results are
found when a person develops a long-term relationship with a practitioner so for
this reason most practitioners will recommend that you stay with them from three
months to a year. Keeping this in mind, I told her that they should be able to
give her an estimated charge for their initial consultation and follow-up fees.
I advised Hind that she should be suspicious if the practitioner does not
initially reveal their fees, if they do not have a standard set of fees or if
they want to see her only once. Additionally she should be suspicious, if they
seem too eager to possess her for a year, if they often have surprise extra
charges, or refuse to cooperate with any other practitioner. Her previous
homeopath had refused to let her get a mammogram for a year and had consistently
charged her extra fees stating that the remedy she had given took extra care to
mix or that she had to administer another test of some sort.
Since
Hind had already had some bad experiences with her previous practitioner she
knew that another important question to ask was what the person's policy was on
sharing information and cooperating with other health care practitioners. An
ethical practitioner should never reveal a client's information to anyone
without his or her permission. However, at the same time they should always give
as much information as required, including the client file, to the client
themselves or another healer if requested in writing by the client. Her previous
healer refused to release her complete records and even demanded that she not be
allowed to see the reduced version of her records when sent to another
homeopath. They had also requested that she not get a mammogram. However, it is
a fallacy that one mammogram would be harmful. We live in a world today where we
are exposed to great amounts of microwaves and electro-smog so claming that one
mammogram would harm a person or disrupt a remedy is not a realistic claim.
Finally, it is often helpful to combine modern medicine with traditional
medicine or even to combine two methods of healing such as herbs and acupuncture
or homeopathy and reflexology. Any practitioner she used should be willing to
work with other healers.
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Ask
your practitioner how you are expected to obtain your remedies.
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The
problems Hind had with money and her previous healer were also as a result of
the person's policy on remedies. I informed Hind that this was one of the most
important things to find out about any practitioner before seeing them. I asked
her to make sure she knew what method of healing the practitioner was using and
how she would obtain the remedies that would be suggested. Some practitioners
give out the names of their remedies and send the client to the store to buy them. Other
practitioners mix their own herbs or homeopathic remedies and yet others
purchase from a single supplier and act as an agent of that supplier. I told her
to beware of the problems related to each one. In the case of her being sent out
to get her own remedies there was always the chance that she would not be able
to find or afford what she was asked to use. It also meant that the practitioner
would have no idea about the quality or cost of her treatment. However, mixing
remedies is not an easy task and if a practitioner is not skilled at it then it
is not a good idea to use their remedy at all. Last, but certainly not least, it
is very easy to come into a conflict of interest if a practitioner is acting as
an agent for a certain company or if they are selling their own remedies. In the
medical as well as the natural healing field this can cause a tendency to
over-prescribe remedies in order to gain more money from the client. Sometimes
healers use one company as a convenience to the client and because they trust
and know the results of that particular formula. However, just as many are
simply representing a remedy because they can make a lot of money selling it to
people.
One
of the last questions Hind needed to ask any future practitioners was what
experience they had with her condition. If a practitioner has experienced the
problem personally they will often have the most insight. A healer can also gain
important insight by having treated a large number of people with the same
ailment. Even reading some specialized books or taking a seminar can provide a
healer with insight. However, if the practitioner has never even heard of her
condition or has never treated anyone with her condition she needs to know that.
Hind
also needed to be able to decide if her healer was being honest or not and what
legal rights she has being treated by that person. The only people legally able
to diagnose disease and prescribe medicines are medical doctors (MDs). Her
alternative health care practitioners should always follow the moral rules of
alternative healing to protect both her and themselves. The rules are:
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Herbalists, homeopaths and other natural healers are not allowed to diagnose
disease or prescribe medicines. They may comment on body weaknesses and suggest
solutions, however they must not use medical language in their speech or suggest
a client has a particular disease.
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Non-MDs cannot take patients or claim to heal disease. They can only take
clients and claim to help them to heal themselves. They must present themselves
as teachers and assistants to the client and not as doctors.
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A healer cannot claim to be something they are not. Naturopaths, for instance
can practice legally in Washington but only if they have passed certain board
exams. So if a person calls himself or herself a naturopath in Washington and
does not have board certification they are making false claims.
Last,
but not least, Hind needed to know how well her health care practitioner would
listen to her. Often the best information comes from a client's intuition,
feelings or personal experience so any good healer should always be willing to
listen to and give proper respect to any insight the client can provide.
I
also shared with Hind the “Oath of the Muslim Physician" that is used by
the IMA (Islamic Medical Association). The oath was a good indication of what
qualities one should look for in a good medical practitioner.