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The removal of the mosque barrier has split the 400-member congregation of Darussalam mosque in San Francisco. (Courtesy New York Times).
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CAIRO — The removal of a
wall separating male and female worshipers at
San Francisco's largest downtown mosque left
its 400-member congregation split down the
middle.
"It's one of those
cultural things that many immigrants brought
from overseas without giving it much
thought," Souleiman Ghali, a founding
member of the Islamic Society of San
Francisco, told The New York Times on Sunday,
June 25.
"I am positive there
will be an American Islamic identity that is
separate from what you see in the Middle East
and the rest of the Islamic world," he
said.
The debate raged after the
slapdash, 8-foot wall across the back of the
Darussalam mosque was demolished.
"It's time to get rid
of those bad habits," said Ghali, who was
the main force behind the wall's removal.
"We can discuss things
that would be taboo in different
countries," he added.
It is perfectly
Islamic to hold meetings of men and women
inside the mosque, whether for prayers or for
any other Islamic purpose, without separating
them with a curtain, partition or wall, Dr.
Muzammil H. Siddiqi, former President of the
Islamic Society of North America, told
IslamOnline.net on June 25.
If there is a concern that
the lines of men and women will mix inside the
mosque, then there is no harm in putting a
lower barrier, only to demarcate the separate
area for women, he said.
Siddiqi stressed, however,
that women should not be put in a totally
separate room in the mosque unless there is a
shortage of space and no other proper
arrangement can be done for them.
Tea Drinking
The aim of removing the
wall was not for the sexes to mingle, but to
have comparable access to the imam, according
to the The New York Times.
"He (imam) was always
addressing the brothers during the Friday
sermon," complained Sevim Kalyoncu, a
young Turkish-American writer.
"Now we hear 'brothers
and sisters' because he can see us."
Women supportive of the
wall removal say they had trouble hearing the
sermon and often fell out of sync with the
prayer movements.
Distracted, some say they
gave up praying and instead just gossiped or
drank tea.
"Before, I felt very
distant, but now it seems that women are part
of the group. It's a first step," said
Kalyoncu.
In 2001, a survey by the
Council on American-Islamic Relations of more
than 1,200 mosques found that 66 percent of
them required women to pray behind a partition
or in a separate room.
Opposition
The wall was replaced with
small printed signs reading "Sisters
Prayer Area Only Behind This Sign."
Broad green stripes on the
red carpet show the faithful where to line up.
However, after its
demolition a group of women marched in
brandishing a hand-lettered cardboard sign
that read "We Want the Wall."
"As a Muslim woman, I
was more at peace praying behind the
wall," said 50-year-old Zeinab al-Andea.
"As a veiled woman, I
don't want to mix with men."
Several men who pray at the
mosque are still grumbling, and some of them
even decamped for another mosque.
"I don't want to be
distracted by ladies in the back when I am
praying," said Adel al-Dalali, 40, a
Yemeni cab driver.
"Even if it is more
culture than religious tradition, we feel it's
needed."