NABLUS,
June 11 (IslamOnline.net) – With her husband detained by the Israeli
occupation forces, Umm Suhaib found herself in charge of her family,
not just to protect the children, but also to provide for them.
Like
other Palestinian women, she never loses hope, even in the cruelest
moments. The majority of Palestinian women know the feeling; the
husband is either detainee or wanted by the Israelis.
The
occupation practices render life a constant struggle for all
Palestinians. Shouldering responsibility at home in the absence of a
husband under such circumstances is, by no means, a job far from easy.
Umm
Suhaib decided to follow in the footsteps of her husband; resist the
occupation, but in a different way. Her struggle, however, is not any
less significant than his.
Apart
from bringing up and sustaining her children, she started working to
provide her children with their needs for living and education.
Married
to Sheikh Taissir Omran, imam of Al-Ruda Mosque in Nablus and member
of the political leadership of Hamas Movement, Umm Suhaib refused to
surrender to hopelessness.
She
launched her small business for pastry making to provide for her
children: Suhaib, her elder son, her daughter Umama, a student in the
faculty of Engineering, Al-Nagah National University in Nablus,
Khabib, a high school student, and the five-year-old Yasmin.
In
an interview with IslamOnline.net Thursday, June 10, Umm Suhaib spoke
of her experience saying, "The sufferings of my family started
several years ago when Sheikh Taissir was detained for several times;
the first of which was in 1990 up to 1994.
"Two
years after Al-Aqsa Intifada (September 2000), the occupation troops
started to chase him again. He left home and I remained the only
breadwinner in the family, even while he is out of jail."
"The
occupation troops kept chasing my husband till he was detained June
10, 2003 (exactly one year ago), to be cross-examined up to this
current moment," she resumed.
The
Beginnings
On
how the idea of making pastry occurred to her, Umm Suhaib said,
"It occurred to me through the different kinds of pastries I used
to serve for my guests: pastries with cheese, wild thyme or meat. When
my neighbors admired my pastries, they suggested that I make more and
join fairs held by charities in Nablus for food products.
"I
dedicated a part of my house to set up a small, low-cost oven with an
amount of money I saved with my husband to secure the future of our
family," she added.
She
elaborated that the presence of an oven in her house made her job
easier and helped her continue making pastry, pointing out that her
elder son, Suhaib, is the one who deals with customers.
"I
started marketing my products among my neighbors. My reputation has
become widespread day after day. I have joined the Center of Cultural
and Artistic Roots with 300 pieces of pastry along the three days of
the fair and sold all pastries I made," she said.
"My
participation in such fairs has increased. After I had made pastries
with cheese and wild thyme, I started making pastries with hot dogs,
spinach and minced meat," she added.
Umm
Suhaib kept developing her business and distributed her pastry
products among several schools in Nablus, including Kamal Hunbalat,
Al-Hajja Rashida and Ibn Qutaiba schools.
Umm
Suhaib starts her business day at 6 a.m. up to 12:30 p.m. She
dedicates several hours, during that time, to her house work.
"Thank God, I manage both my house and business and I have never
been negligible towards my family."
"I
get Suhaib wake up in the morning after bringing everything home. He
makes home deliveries and deal with customers, while I prepare dough
and put it in the oven," she adds.
Umm
Suhaib concluded saying that her husband encourages her from behind
bars and feels that she does a heroic and ideal job through her
ability to keep and manage her house affairs without the need for
favors from others.