And
in the Sunnah, it was reported that the Prophet (peace and
blessings be upon him) said, “The thing of which I am
most afraid (that it should afflict) you is the minor
polytheism (shirk).” They (the listeners) said, “O
Messenger of Allah, what is the minor polytheism?” The
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) answered, “(It
is) showing off. Allah, Glorified and Exalted be He,
says to those (who show off in worldly life) on the Day of
Resurrection, when He rewards people for their deeds, ‘Go
to those of whom you wanted to be seen in worldly life, and
see if you can find (any) reward with them.” (Ahmad)
The
Degrees of Showing Off
Showing
off has different degrees, some of which are more serious
than the others.
The
first and most dangerous degree is not originally
seeking to get Allah's reward for one’s deed, as in the
case of a person who performs Prayer only when people can
see him and neglects it when being away from their sight.
The
second degree is seeking to get a good reward for
one’s act but the deed is absorbed with showing off to the
extent that if one were alone one would not do it. This
degree is near to the first one, and both are detestable in
the sight of Allah.
The
third degree is having the intention equally directed
towards both getting a good reward for one’s act and being
seen by people. In this case a person ruins his good deed,
as he is not free from sin.
The
fourth degree is that being seen by people encourages
one to do such religious acts, but one does not neglect
worship when out of people’s sight. In this case one is
rewarded for the good intention and punished for the bad
intention.
The
Remedy for Showing Off
There
are two elements in the remedy for showing off: first,
uprooting it from the heart, and second, warding it
off immediately whenever it comes to one’s mind when doing
an act of worship.
As
for uprooting it from the heart, it should be realized that
love of prestige and high position is the primary root of
showing off. There are three signs of such love: to love the
pleasure produced by being praised, to avoid the pain of
being dispraised, and to look greedily at what other people
possess.
A
person may not like being praised or mentioned by people,
yet he does not like either to be dispraised by them. Such
is the case of a person who, though a coward, does not flee
from the battlefield so that he is not accused of cowardice.
The best remedy for such a person, as well as the person who
likes to be praised, is to meditate on what leads him to
show off and to recall the tremendous consequences of this
terrible flaw. He will then realize that, in spite of its
being pleasant at the moment, it is harmful in the end, so
it is quite rational that he should avoid it from the
beginning.
Another
main root of showing off is looking covetously at what other
people possess. A person can remove this root by
comprehending that only Allah the Almighty provides bounties
and wealth, and that whoever looks covetously at the
possessions of others is not free from humiliation and loss,
even if he gets any of these possessions. How can he then
leave that which in the hands of Allah for the sake of a
deceptive desire for what others have?
The
second element in the remedy for showing off is to ward it
off immediately whenever it comes to one’s mind when doing
an act of worship. This can be done through much practice
and striving against one’s vain desires. This striving
requires that the person who is afflicted with showing off
habituates himself to being content with Allah’s bounties
and not seeking to get what others have. He should also pay
no attention to people’s praising or dispraising him, for
Satan never leaves him alone when he is worshiping Allah and
always attacks him with thoughts of showing off that may
render his worship fruitless. If, for example, he is
distracted by the idea that people are observing his
worship, he should say to himself, “It doesn’t matter
whether or not they know about my worship, for Allah knows
best about it. So, what will be gained by anyone else’s
knowing about it?”