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Frogs in Hot Water

By Anthea Davis *

Apr. 23, 2006

I have been spending quite a bit of time watching films lately and looking back at the old days — I mean the 1960's and onwards. When I watch films from a few decades ago, I see a completely different world. I feel like an alien from another planet visiting this place. The cars, clothes, the ways people dealt with each other, and the hairdos were all so very different to me and the days I live in now.

I made an analysis (probably out of guilt of having watched so much TV!) of some films from that time until now. In the 1960's, people still had a strong concept of family, marriage, and values. As time moved on, the family started to break down more and people started to rebel (or so it seemed) against society, but in the course of their rebellion they did not replace what they saw as bad with something positive and beneficial for all. It was a reaction – not an action. Things still continued to spiral downhill, and as the family disintegrated, people became more isolated and lost. Then the rush to fill in the void increased as people started using more drugs and such things.

I mean, look at some comparisons to see how much the world has changed in such a short time. Do you remember the old Shirley Temple movies, where the nasty guy in the film would be the one who would not let the orphan girl go to the people she loved? Then there's James Dean in Rebel Without a Cause, here we see the lack of communication and understanding between teenagers and parents and teenagers and society. We see people lost but not knowing where to turn or how to fix things.

After this a surge of films about kids from the ghetto, gangs, mafia, and manipulation, strike back. More and more violence creeps in and women are shown less respect; motherhood is looked down upon and "successful" women are shown in films as having successful careers and making lots of money. Children become the collateral damage of an emerging technologically advanced society.

Subsequently, the kids strike back and we see gang wars, a matrix world, and an information explosion. Plus, the imminent threat of nuclear war and mass destruction is always hovering in the backdrop of life, ready to cloud every joyful moment.

In reaction to that, we see more depression, indiscriminate violence, and young people lashing out at family, school mates, teachers, the society — everyone — even themselves.

The Shirley Temple world of innocence, conscience, and decency has long gone. But has it really been that long? I mean fifty years is not a long time in the history of the world, yet so many marked changes have occurred.

The other strange thing I noticed is that on a large scale, people have accepted these changes and just keep a go-with-the-flow mentality, so they find themselves carried along on a current of change that cannot be turned back.

Now we often see in films people crying out for help and doing desperate things to bring attention to their lonely plight. Feelings of desperation, simmering violence, erupting madness, and absolute despair color many of the films that reflect our age.

All of this led me to think about why my parents or my grandparents didn't make some kind of a stand against what was going on. Is it that every generation lives on apathy, blames the previous generation, and leaves the solution-finding work to the next generation? Are we all guilty of blaming everyone else but ourselves for the state of the world? Are we right to feel helpless? Is the answer to just give up, shoot up, carve up, and shut up? I don't think so!

If you put frogs in water at a comfortable temperature, then let the temperature rise slowly, they will not jump out. In fact, they will continue to stay in the slowly heating water until they die. I wonder, who do the frogs blame for their miserable, avoidable death?

Have we become like frogs in slowly heating water? The moral state of society is on a steady decline but how many of us are reacting in a way that solves the problems? How hot is the water where you are? Are you going to jump or die? Are you going to be the one who steps up and says "enough is enough; I'm not having this anymore! I'm not going to follow the rest of you guys to self destruction"?

"Be the change you want the world to be." (Link to Me, the Other)

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* Anthea Davis has worked for many years with the youth in the United Kingdom and can be contacted at youth_campaign@iolteam.com

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