I
once read somewhere that you can't choose how your life begins,
and you can't choose how your life ends, but in-between, you can
choose who you want to be. Life is filled with uncertainties,
it's an adventure waiting to happen. Opportunities are waiting
at every corner, but how long will it take to turn your
fantasies into dreams and your dreams into a reality. How much
are you willing to risk to discover yourself, in fact, are you
willing to take risks at all?
Life
is an ongoing journey. How often does one reflect on the growth
that life has blessed us with. Memories are one way of
determining our success. Surround yourself with memories of
yesteryear, all those moments are swept under the carpet and
collect cobwebs, they border on the line of being forgotten. Do
yourself a favor, don't ever forget. Every step you made in the
past is a stepping stone to your success, every memory you have
has immense value. Every mistake that you made in the past had
brought you closer to discovering more about yourself,
discovering the life within you.
Imagine
your entire life as a bubble, a little ball that fits in the
palm of your hands. Now you can watch it, stop it, rewind it,
and replay it. Amazing, Isn't it? How much you have changed, how
much you have experienced, the physical and mental growth, but
even more amazing is the fact that it doesn't end there, you
have so much more of yourself to discover.
The
one mortal being you should fear most is yourself, because only
you have the ability to either make or break yourself. The cliché
that you are your own best friend is so true, no one knows you,
understands you, cherishes you, or loves you better then you do.
The best way to live your life is to learn to love yourself more
everyday for various reasons, in this way you would be able to
discover more about yourself and become your own best friend.
On
the other hand, you could become your own worst enemy,
pessimistic attitude and insolence is one of the worst mistakes
you can make, no soul has the ability to bring you down or break
your spirit more then you do. Self-destruction could lead to an
unworthy end.
Day
to day activities and the monotony of life often makes us get so
wrapped up in the system that we tend forget the purpose of
being here in the first place and in some cases one could even
lose oneself in the structured routine of life. A famous saying
goes, "Wherever you go, there you are." You cannot run
away from yourself, so don't waste half your life trying to be
someone else, or even worse avoiding who you really are.
If
you don't know yourself, then who else would? Is it possible to
live your life without really understanding yourself in the
first place? Life is natural, Allah has a natural plan for all
of us, and we are all part of nature, so best we take care of
our environment, starting with ourselves. Someone wise once told
me that in life there are two kinds of people, those who are
living and those who merely exist. Which one are you?
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Hajra Kamdar is an
18 year old student and a youth volunteer in South Africa. She
can be contacted at youth_campaign@iolteam.com