Much
has been said about the sad state of today's youth. We
constantly hear our elders complaining how we — the youth of
today — have lost our morality and values. But is a concerted
effort being made to instill in us the correct values, and to
guide us on a path of virtue? Unfortunately, the answer is no.
Where are the organizations that offer constructive extramural
activities? Most communities are lacking in youth empowerment
activities. For most students, their only opportunity to
engage in these activities comes from the Muslim Students
Association at their universities.
WAMY
(World Association of Muslim Youth) decided that something
needed to be done. At the Durban-based WAMY in South Africa, a
dynamic young woman took the initiative to introduce a training
and leadership course for youth.
Nahida
Abdulwahid Esmail was born and bred in Tanzania. In January
2005, she relocated to South Africa, where she taught Arabic at
a Muslim high school for girls.
Esmail
became aware of the paucity of youth activity and thought of
running her own workshops from home, for both youth and adults.
She was also disappointed by the lack of facilities available
and commented that "Muslims constitute a miniscule two
percent of South Africa's population. It's sad that there aren't
alternative sources of entertainment for the youth. We shouldn't
complain that our children frequent the clubs and casinos. We
should be blaming ourselves."
The
director of WAMY South Africa, Mohammed Amra, learned of her
ambitions and offered her a full-time job as youth coordinator
at WAMY. Esmail said, "When I first started, there was no
set structure to follow. However, WAMY did have a goal. Their
aim is to enable youth to reach their full leadership potential
in order to serve the Ummah at large."
WAMY
was piloting the project when Esmail came on board. Esmail
introduced a structured program where participants meet once a
week on Friday evenings. Learners are taught skills such as
leadership, patience, volunteerism, and team building. Education
is a key element of the course.
Esmail's
first priority was to inculcate a practical aspect to the
program involving community service. Students were urged to
think what the needs of orphans might be. The students were
enthusiastic about the project, and Esmail is pleased with their
efforts. "Some of the students held a tea morning where
they invited over fifty women, and charged them 50 rand each.
Others presented a slide show on the orphanage, highlighting the
needs of the orphanage and thus raised money from
donations," she reflected with a smile.
At
a recent family trade fair, students set up a stall selling
T-shirts, badges, and other paraphernalia to raise money for the
Umbumbulu orphanage.
Leadership
in Islam is a huge responsibility, and participants who undergo
the course could well be the next community leaders in the
future. The course is free and open to all youth. At the end of
the course, participants are evaluated on their involvement in
the course and on how it has affected them personally.
We
asked WAMY youth course group leader Farah Dawood, for her
feedback.
Q:
What motivated you to participate in the course?
A:
Our school received an invitation for students to participate in
the course. Upon hearing this, my attention was immediately
aroused. Opportunities like these are unfortunately rare in our
community. I am fortunate to have hopped on board the euphoric
and rewarding WAMY train. I have not looked back! The pilot
training course in December 2004 was a positively captivating
and enriching program and has ensured our further commitment.
Q:
What skills have you gained from the course?
A:
The course has dealt with various aspects of life — personal
development, spiritual upliftment, leadership potential, self
perception, and individual growth. It teaches one to unlock
one's true potential so each of us may shine and be a guiding
light in our clouded Ummah. To quote the former president Nelson
Mandela, "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,
our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is
our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask
ourselves — who am I to be brilliant and talented? Who are you
not to be? You are a child of God — your playing small does
not help the world. As we let our own light shine, we
unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are
liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically
liberates others."
Q:
What are your goals in life, and how has the course helped you
toward achieving your goals?
A:
I have many goals, aspirations, and dreams. In sha' Allah,
my future will be bright. I would like to strike a balance
between being a pious believer, developing my business acumen,
maintaining a healthy social life, and engaging in sporting
activities. The course has taught me how to attain tranquility
in my life by turning to Allah and how to focus on my goals to
achieve success. It is a holistic course designed to enable us
to live a harmonious life in a multi-faceted society, which is
compatible with our Islamic beliefs.
Q:
Tell us of your experiences on trips, and the camaraderie that
exists between you and your colleagues.
A:
We have had innumerable memorable experiences. The most
rewarding experiences were the trip to the Bamba Sandla (Holding
Hands), Home of Safety, and to the Umbumbulu orphanage. The
immense joy that we brought to those children, through our
simple gestures, touched us all in an unimaginable way. We now
share an unconditional bond with those beautiful kids.
The
camaraderie is present in every activity, as each one requires
team effort. It's encouraging to note the remarkable ideas,
feedback and positive spirit that emanates from individuals when
they work in a group.
Q:
How has the course personally influenced your life?
A:
Al-hamdu lillah, the course has given me direction in
life, and has laid the foundations for my future success. It has
granted me the confidence to take my place in society and the
support to believe in my own worth.
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