Most
people have had a busy year with school or work or both! Long
hours of studying for exams, finishing assignments, and waiting
for results have all taken their toll on people’s health and
well-being.
It’s
time to have a change and do things you enjoy. At the same time
it is time to be careful that you do not just slump in front of
the television and let your mind completely switch off.
Many
times young people sit for hours in front of the television and
then yawn and complain that they feel bored! Long hours
passively watching other people live their lives soaks up your
creativity, interest, and sociability.
Feeling
bored is a horrible feeling especially when the people do not
know what they want to do. Years of being in the habit of
watching a lot of television or playing a lot of computer games
has denied young people the right to explore various interests
and hobbies.
How
can a person feel bored when there is sport, arts, crafts,
skills to be learned, things to share, and people to meet? In
many countries around the world such opportunities exist for
young people to use their time in constructive ways—in
activities where they are involved in making or doing something
and seeing the changes take place.
But
when young people get used to being passive, it becomes
difficult to switch their brain over to being active and
creative.
What
is necessary is balance in your life. Every day do something for
your body (exercise, sports and so on), for your mind (learn
something new), for your spirit (keep up your prayer and read
Qur’an), and for someone else.
A
young man of about 17 years of age had been almost addicted to
television and computer. For some reason his parents did not
want him to go out and play sports, but they ended up being
sorry because this teenager began to get very frustrated and
nervous and began making a lot of problems at home. They asked
me if I could do something to help him and help make up for the
mistakes they had made keeping him at home in front of the
screen. So after some thought, I took him to the school for the
blind in our area.
The
sight of these young people in the blind school touched his
heart. He is a kind and sensitive young man and just needed to
see a bit of life to come to life himself. Each one of the blind
students had learned to read and write using Braille. They could
do many things for themselves and were quite self-confident.
When this young man sat, talked, and laughed with them, I could
see a change coming over him. He was starting to see the real
world. And he was starting to see his part in it.
The
blind students were taught to memorize the Qur’an, and every
day volunteers would come and read to them from newspapers,
articles on the Internet, and anything of interest. One
particular woman who was affiliated with the blind school was
married with four children, even though she was blind. My friend
watched her as she combed her daughter’s hair so perfectly.
She can cook and take care of most things in the house. Her
children help her and she is always smiling and always busy.
Such people are special and serve to inspire those of us who,
for some reason, say we are bored, despite the fact that we have
good health and opportunities. This lady also does counseling
for youth! She is a marvel.
Such
experiences awaken our hearts and put our own lives into
context. We get to see how fortunate we are and perhaps we also,
like this young man, are wasting the many abilities and
opportunities we have been granted.
He
began to visit the blind school regularly and made some good
friends. He found that when Allah takes away something from His
servants (sight) He grants them something else. He found that
the students at the blind school had minds that were extremely
keen, easy and willing to learn, with a deep interest in
everything around them. He began to see his own shallowness and
when he acknowledged that, he started to grow.
Now
he has finished his education and is a qualified physical
education teacher. He teaches at a blind school and also
organizes summer programs for young people who say they are
bored!