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Summer
is a time to feel a bit free and to have a chance to do all the things you
didn't have time to do during the year. For many people it is a time for sea,
sun, and surf, or for bushwhacking, mountain climbing, canoeing, or
hiking. But as a new Muslim woman what can you do in the summer?
New
Muslims are going through many changes. They are making the transition from old
habits to new, from old friends to new ones, and to old ways of enjoying their
times to new ways.
Enjoy
Yourself!
Depending
on where you live, there may be places you can go to enjoy swimming. For Muslim
women, as long as they are dressed
modestly they can swim with other women. In many countries Muslim
women can organize the local swimming pool to make a women-only day. In other
countries there are beaches you can visit with your family where you can enjoy
your privacy.
Hiking
and bushwhacking, camping and canoeing are fine as long as the Muslim woman
dresses in long, loose clothes. There are many styles of Islamic clothing and
you can find one to suit the activity you want to do. The other factor you have
to keep in mind in such activities is safety. It is better to go in an organized
group and take your husband, brother, uncle, or father along with you just in
case. There was even a group of Iranian
Muslim women who climbed Mount Everest! The sky is the limit!
But
life for a Muslim is not just having fun and playing games. There is a time for
everything, and a Muslim's life should be balanced. The Muslim should always
have a goal in mind for any activity in life. So if we keep the fundamental goal
of life itself — to worship Allah the Almighty — then everything we do, with
the intention to please Allah, is a form of worship and is rewarded.
Learn,
Learn, Learn … and Then Teach!
Spend
some time gaining knowledge. The first thing for a new Muslim to do is to
memorize some Qur'an and the prayers in Arabic. Find a place that teaches Arabic
for beginners, or get a cassette or book to learn Arabic. Where there is a will
there is a way, so be wise and use some of your time to learn. I met a sister
from a European country who had been very poor as a child and had never gone to
school. She couldn't read or write even in her own native language. However, she
was able to memorize one juz' (section) of the Qur'an simply by listening to a
cassette over and over again.
There
are many books available that provide information on the life of the Prophet
(peace be upon him), the meaning of prayer, Islamic dress, the family structure
in Islam, how people should deal with each other, among other things. Get a hold
of such books and enjoy the bounty of learning. There are also a lot of
magazines and journals. In addition, the Internet has become a tool for learning
as well as a way of meeting people and sharing experiences.
Make
up your mind to learn something new or develop a skill you already have.
Afterwards, give back to your community by teaching others. Try to find a way to
help the people around you and learn to empathize with others. Allah has given
all human beings skills and abilities, so find what yours are and share them
with others. There is so much satisfaction in helping others when we do this for
the sake of Allah and not to be thanked or acknowledged by people.
Gardening
and Exercise
If
you like gardening, there is a blessing in this too. If you plant a tree or
something that benefits an animal or human being, you will continue to receive
the blessing for that as long as the benefit remains.
The
strong Muslim is better than the weak Muslim, so find ways to exercise and keep
a healthy diet so your body will be strong and healthy. To keep a healthy mind
you must have a positive attitude toward life. Such an attitude comes about
after you learn to surrender to Allah and trust in Him, being ever-hopeful and
ever optimistic. Whenever a calamity strikes turns to Allah, ask for guidance
and relief and trust in Him.
Reach
Out and Help Others
Try
to be charitable and hospitable. During the summer invite other new Muslims to
your home and have a meal together. This does not have to be an elaborate meal,
but just something simple. This is the way of the Prophet who shared all he had.
Try to inculcate the spirit of sisterhood, love, and kindness between the people
you bring to your home. Be the one who makes the first move to introduce people
to each other. Discuss problems in the community in a way to find solutions.
Encourage the others to be active in the community and to help each other and
thereby foster feelings of love and friendship. Bring along someone who is
knowledgeable so you can have a short and meaningful lesson. In every gathering
we should remember Allah so we do not waste our time.
Therefore,
there are basically two ways of looking at your free time in the summer. You can
either have fun and enjoy yourself and make this your supreme goal, or you can
use all the things you do as ways and means of obtaining blessings from Allah.
Even going mountain climbing can be a way of receiving Allah's blessings if we
thank and praise Him for all we see and enjoy.
Whatever
you do this summer, let it be a source of reward, a way of drawing close to
Allah, a way of learning, sharing, and getting to know other Muslims.
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This article first appeared at Reading
Islam.