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Ten Blessed Nights
By
Mona Salama
The
last ten nights of Ramadan are very special. These are the nights
that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to spend in
constant worship, du`aa’ and dhikr.
The
last third of Ramadan is the time for release from Hellfire, as the
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said in a Hadith reported
by Salman Al-Farisi: "...The first third of the month of
Ramadan is the time for mercy, the second third is for forgiveness,
the third is for release from Hellfire…" (Ibn Khuzaymah)
Laylat
Al-Qadr is your time to live with sincerity, joy and with a real
sweetness that you will experience - the sweetness of Iman.
Even if you were to live one thousand months with sincerity and
dedication, this one night is much better. It is the night when the
seal of the Prophets received the seal of revelations; the Glorious
Qur'an.
If
you are interested in living the Night of Power , and obtaining the
treasures of the last 10 days, if you have the intention and
determination, let us remind you of some of the things that you
should do.
Wake
Up the Family
`A’ishah
(may Allah be pleased with her) said: "During the last ten
nights of Ramadan, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
would tighten his waist belt and spend the night in worship. He
would also wake up his family." (Al-Bukhari)
Umm
Salamah relates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
woke her up one night, and said: "Glory be to Allah! What
trials have been sent down during this night! What trials have been
sent down, so that the denizens of the bedchambers will be awakened!
O Lord! To be clothed in this world by being naked in the
Hereafter." (Al-Bukhari)
Love
and Be Loved
The
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) told us that Allah the
Almighty says,
"My
servant does not draw close to Me with anything as he does by
carrying out what I have made obligatory upon him. My servant
continues drawing closer to Me by performing optional deeds such
that I love him, and when I love him I am his hearing with which
he hears, his sight by which he sees, his hand with which he
strikes, and his leg with which he walks. Were he to ask of Me I
would surely give him and were he to ask Me for refuge I would
surely grant it to him."
Be
a Thankful Believer
Narrated
Al-Mughira:
The
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to stand in prayer or
pray till both his feet or legs swelled. He was asked why (he
offered such an unbearable prayer) and he said, "Should I
not be a thankful slave?" (Al-Bukhari)
Exerting
Oneself in Worship
`A’ishah
(may Allah be pleased with her) said: "I had never known
Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) to read the
entire Qur'an in a single night, or to spend the whole night in
prayer until the morning, or to spend a whole month in fasting –
except in Ramadan." (An-Nasa'i and Ibn Majah)
And,
"The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would exert
himself in worship during the last ten nights more than at any other
time of the year." (Muslim)
She
(may Allah be pleased with her) also told us that the Prophet (peace
and blessings be upon him) would "tighten his waist belt",
(devote oneself fully to this task.)
Make
Up for What You Might Have Missed
Almighty
Allah is the Oft- Forgiving, the Compassionate and Merciful. He
loves this Ummah and loves to forgive and have mercy upon its
believers. He gives them chance after chance so that they would
return to Him. The last 10 days are simply 'another chance' for
those who missed the first 20 days and need to repent. The chance is
still there and the doors are wide open. So, do not miss them again!
(Say:
"O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls!
Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins:
for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.)
(Az-Zumar 39:53)
Seeking
Laylat Al-Qadr
A
Muslim should seek this special night by spending the last ten
nights of Ramadan engaged in various acts of worship. These include
reading the Qur'an, dhikr, and begging Allah's forgiveness
Ibrahim
al-Nakha`i says: "Good deeds performed on this night are better
than those performed consistently for a thousand months."
Abu
Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) related that the Prophet
(peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Whoever spends
Laylat Al-Qadr in prayer, believing in Allah and seeking His reward,
all his past sins will be forgiven." (Al-Bukhari and
Muslim)
Allah
the Almighty says: (Laylat
Al-Qadris better than a thousand months. The angels and the Spirit
descend therein, by the permission of their Lord, with every decree.
(This night is) peace, until the rising of the dawn.)
(Al-Qadr 97: 3-5)
Retreat
in the Mosque (i`tikaf)
Observing
a retreat in the mosque is of the best things we can do during the
last ten nights of Ramadan. `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with
her) told us: "The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
used to observe a retreat in the mosque during the last ten nights
of Ramadan up until he died. His wives continued to observe this
practice after his death." (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
The
practice of i`tikaf helps us to devote our hearts exclusively to
Almighty Allah. The person engaging in i`tikaf keeps this intention
close to mind and seeks the blessings ofAlmighty Allah. It is
important that he does not forget the reason why he is observing
this retreat.
Generosity
We
are encouraged to be extra generous during the last ten nights of
Ramadan. Ibn `Abbas related: "Allah's Messenger (peace and
blessings be upon him) was the most generous of all people in doing
good, and he was at his most generous during the month of Ramadan.
Jibreel used to meet with him every year throughout the month of
Ramadan, so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) could
recite the Qur'an to him. Whenever Jibreel met with him, he became
more generous than a beneficial breeze." (Al-Bukhari and
Muslim)
Al-Nawawi
says: "Generosity and open-handedness are strongly encouraged
in Ramadan, especially during the last ten nights. By doing so, we
emulate the example of Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be
upon him) as well as that of our Pious Predecessors..."
Remembrance
and Dhikr
The
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Indeed,
this world, with all it contains, is cursed, except for the
remembrance of Allah and what follows it from deeds pleasing to
Allah, scholars (of religion) and seekers of knowledge.”"
(Tirmidhi).
Abu
Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: The Prophet
(peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Our Lord, the
Blessed, the Superior, comes every night down on the nearest Heaven
to us when the last third of the night remains, saying: "Is
there anyone to invoke Me, so that I may respond to his invocation?
Is there anyone to ask Me, so that I may grant him his request? Is
there anyone seeking My forgiveness, so that I may forgive
him?" (Muslim)
Seek
Acceptance
`Ubadah
ibn As-Samit (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: The Prophet
(peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Whoever gets up at
night and says: -- 'La ilaha il-lallah wahdahu la sharika lahu
lahu-l-mulk, wa lahu-l-hamd wahuwa 'ala kullishai'in Qadir. Alhamdu
lil-lahi wa subhanal-lahi wa la-ilaha il-lal-lah wa-l-lahu akbar wa
la hawla Wala Quwata il-la-bil-lah.'
(None
has the right to be worshipped but Allah. He is the Only One and has
no partners. For Him is the Kingdom and all praises are due to Him.
He is Omnipotent. All praises are due to Allah. All glory is due to
Allah. And none has the right to be worshipped but Allah, and Allah
is Great and there is neither Might nor Power Except with Allah).
And then says: -- Allahumma, Ighfir li (O Allah! Forgive me). Or
invokes (Allah), he will be responded to and if he performs ablution
(and prays), his prayer will be accepted." (Al-Bukhari)
Du`aa’
of Laylat Al-Qadr
Imam
Ahmad recorded from `A’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), that
she said, “"O Messenger of Allah! If I find the Night of
Laylat Al-Qadr what should I say?”" He replied, "Say:
O Allah! Verily, You are the Oft-Pardoning, You love to pardon, so
pardon me." (At-Tirmidhi)
Make
a Personal Du`aa’ List
Ask
yourself what you really want from Almighty Allah. Make a list of
each and every thing, no matter how small or big it is, and whether
it deals with this world or not. Almighty Allah loves to hear from
us. Once you did, be sure that Allah will answer your du`aa',
either by giving you what you wanted , or by giving you a better
thing, or changing your Du`aa' to hassanate (good deeds) that
weighs in your scale when you meet Him.
Make
Up With Other Muslims
Quarrelling
and disagreement was the reason why the exact day of Laylat Al-Qadr
was not revealed to us, so we should not lose its reward by making
the same mistake.
`Ubadah
ibn As-Samit (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came out to inform us
about the Night of Qadr but two Muslims were quarreling with each
other. Therefore, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
said, "I came out to inform you about Laylat Al-Qadr but
such-and-such persons were quarreling, so the news about it was
taken away; yet that might be for your own good, so search for it on
the 29th, 27th and 25th (of Ramadan). (Al-Bukhari)
Evaluate
Yourself
Ask
yourself the questions that need to be asked. Evaluate where you are
and where you are going. Let this evaluation lead you to feel
happiness for the good you have done and remorse for the bad you
have done.
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