The
Complementarity of Motherhood and Fatherhood: A Tour de Force of the Relevant Social Science
W.
Bradford Wilcox* Sociology Department, University of Virginia
In
recent decades, feminists have been promoting an androgynous ethic
that—among other things—seeks to deny gender differences in
parenting. This paper surveys the relevant social science on
parenting and finds that mothers and fathers typically have
different talents when it comes to childrearing. Fathers, for
instance, excel in challenging their children to overcome
difficulties whereas mothers excel in reading the physical and
verbal cues of their children. I conclude by arguing that NGOs,
nations, and international organizations should foster rather than
suppress the complementary styles of parenting found among fathers
and mothers.