Here I am going to write a Good lesson which I have learnt as a teacher of Grade six and seven.
It was last Wednesday, that I sent one of the boy whose name was Irufaan (Class 7B) to out from the calss. And after two or three days he met one of my younger brother in the mosque and he said to him that he is going to hit me. And it seems that he have got so many gang members who are friends of him. And he is going to ask some of them to hit me. My brother came home and he asked me to be carefu. And he said about all these things. The next day I just went to that class-7B and asked him to come out. When he came out, I just asked him to hit me with his full power. And he just kept quiet and he was asking me about the reason why I was asking him to hit me. So, I just said that it is because he said infront of many students that he is going to hit me because one day I have sent him out of the calss. (And the reason Why I have sent him out was that when I asked all the students to stand, I saw him hitting one of the boy who was next to him). And so, I asked him to meet the class teacher and he fled. And during the last period, I went to that class with the Class teacher and I asked him to hit me infront of all the students. And he was keeping quiet without saying anything. There was a growing feeling of anger within myself. And I shouted at him for 10 to 20 minutes. And after some time the class teacher let all the students go. And after that she said she didn't even thought that I would be that much angry. And she said that before shouting or reacting to the things which they do it is important to know about children's ackground. And it seems that he was one of the student who did not get proper care from his parent. And most of the time his mom and dad will keep him out of the house and they will not give enough food to him. For the half of the Ramazan he had spent out- in the road he got food from some of his neghbours.
After that came my turning point, where I realised that I have made a mistake in shouting at him infront of all the students. And I felt sorry for my self. From the moment I came to know about his true status, I was thinking of asking him to forgive me. I was even thinking of meeting him in the mosque and asking him to forgive me.
And yes, Inshallah I will do it. I will be friendly with him and I will share some stories about my life to him and I will collect more information from him about his life.