It is never too late for true Muslims to
repent to Allah and to shed tears for the wrongdoing they have
committed, keeping in mind that if they manage to escape the
punishment of mortals, they will for sure not escape the punishment of
Allah in the hereafter. So it is better to start a new leaf and let
bygones be bygones. As long as you are sincere in your repentance,
Allah Almighty will accept your repentance and forgive you your sins.
If you committed evil but have repented
sincerely and changed your life around for better, then Allah has
certainly promised to grant you mercy and forgiveness. It is one of
the basic principles of belief in Islam that Allah is All-Relenting,
All-Forgiving, and All-Merciful.
Here are a few verses which clearly convey
this crucial concept:
[Do
they not know that it is Allah Who accepts the repentance of His
servants and receives (approves) their charity, and that Allah is
the Relenting, the Compassionate?]
(At-Tawbah 9:104)
[Say:
"O My servants who wronged against their souls, do not
despair of Allah's mercy! For Allah forgives all sins; for He is
indeed Forgiving, Compassionate."]
(Az-Zumar 39:53)
So do not put off repentance; take the
necessary steps immediately, for no one can tell when the death will
overtake us. The door of repentance is open so long as we are not in
the throes of death, for the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
said, "Allah accepts the repentance of His servant so long as
death has not reached his collar bone." But since we have no
way of knowing when death will overtake us, we must never be
complacent or slack in hastening to taking steps towards repentance.
While speaking of repentance, we must rush
to add that it cannot be considered as valid unless one takes the
following steps:
One must feel deep remorse for the sins one
has committed.
One must refrain from it totally while also
abstaining from all those leads or circumstances that led one to such
a sin in the first place.
One must be firmly resolved never to sin
again and immediately becoming occupied in whatever good deeds that
one can in order to wipe out one's past sins.
All of the above involve sins involving the
rights of Allah. If, however, one's sins involve the rights of human
beings, then one must also do whatever it takes to return or
compensate or redress the grievances of the people wronged. Paying
them their dues or compensating them in whatever ways possible becomes
an essential condition of valid repentance.
Repentance, as stated above once
accomplished, will undoubtedly wipe out one’' sins, and guarantee
one a clean record. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"One who has repented of a sin (sincerely) is like one who has
never sinned at all."
In conclusion, after sinning, you should
not feel despair. Rather you should forward sincere repentance to
Allah and rest assured that Allah Almighty will forgive your sin as
long as your repentance meets the abovementioned conditions of
sincerity. Moreover, you must learn how to forget, for the more you
look back to your old days of sinful habit, the wider the door is open
for Satan to draw you back. Scholars used to liken this case to that
of a gazelle being chased by hounds. Despite that the gazelle is
naturally faster, its frequent looking back weakens its morale and
makes it an easy prey for hounds.