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On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be
pleased with him), the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be on him)
said,
"The right of the Muslim on the
Muslim are six." It was said, "What are they, Messenger of
Allah?" He said, "When you meet him, salute him; when he
invites you, respond to him; when he seeks counsel, give him advice;
when he sneezes and praises Allah, say to him: Allah has mercy on you;
when he is sick, visit him; and when he dies, follow his funeral." (Muslim)
According to the above Prophetic hadith,
Muslims have these rights on their Muslim brothers and sisters:
1. To greet them in the Islamic manner when
they meet (that is, "as-salamu `alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa
barakatuh")
2. To accept their invitation (when offered)
3. To advise them (when the situation calls for
it)
4. To seek Allah's mercy for them when they
sneeze and praise Allah
5. To visit them when they are sick
6. To follow their funeral when they die
1. To Greet Them in the Islamic Manner When
They Meet
The greeting of peace is a cause of love, which
results in producing faith, which results in the person entering Paradise.
Allah says,
(But when you enter houses, give greetings of peace upon each other — a greeting from Allah, blessed and good)
(An-Nur 24:61)
Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him)
reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be on him) said,
"You will not enter Paradise until
you have faith, and you will not have faith until you love each other.
Shall I direct you to something which if you fulfill you will love one
another? Spread peace among yourselves" (Muslim)
The greeting of peace is one of the virtuous
characteristics of Islam. For verily each of the people who meet each
other supplicates for the other for safety from evils, and mercy, and
blessing that brings about every good. And what follows this is a cheerful
face and appropriate words of greeting, which result in unity and love,
and a removal of feelings of estrangement and cold disassociation. It is
part of rights of brotherhood for Muslims to put on a smiling face when
they meets their brothers or sisters in faith. Allah's Messenger (peace
and blessings be upon him) said,
"Do not belittle any good deed, even
to meet your brothers with a smiling face." (Muslim)
He also said,
"Your smile in the face of your
brothers is an act of charity."
That is why the Messenger (peace and blessings
be upon him) had a smiling face all the time.
Thus, giving the greeting of peace is the right
of the Muslim, and it is obligatory upon the person who is greeted to
return the greeting with a similar greeting or one that is better. And
the best of the people are those who start the greeting of peace first.
2. To Accept Their Invitation
This means that when brothers or sisters invite
you to a social event or food, then fulfill the request of those who have
drawn near to you and honored you with the invitation. Accept their
invitation unless you have an excuse. By this, Islam cements the social
relations between members of the Muslim community.
3. To Advise Them
When your Muslim brothers and sisters seek your
advice regarding something, you have to sincerely advise them.
In this regard, Tamim Ad-Dari reported that the
Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"Religion is founded on sincere
advice." We said, "To whom?" He said, "To Allah and
His Book, and His Messenger, and to the leaders of the Muslims and their
common folk." (Muslim)
Therefore, Muslims should not hesitate to
advise their Muslim brothers and sisters. However, when advising someone,
you have to take care of the following ethics:
a. It should
be in secret; that is to say, one should advise in secret, not in public
so as not to embarrass the person.
b. Advice
should be given in a kind and gentle manner.
c. The
adviser should explain to the person any wrongdoing and support his or
her stance with proofs from Shari`ah.
4. To Seek Allah's Mercy for Them When They
Sneeze and Praise Allah
This is because sneezing is a favor from Allah.
Thus the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) recommended that the
person praise Allah for this favor, and he ordered for his brother/sister
to say to him/her, "May Allah have mercy upon you." He also
commanded the person who sneezed to answer his brother/sister by saying,
"May Allah guide you and set right your affairs."
Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet (peace
and blessings be upon him) said, "Whenever one of you sneezes,
let him say, 'Praise be to Allah.' And then, let his brother say, 'May
Allah have mercy upon you.' And then he should reply to him saying, 'May
Allah guide you and set right your affairs.'" (Al-Bukhari)
However, those who do not praise Allah do not
deserve that others pray for mercy upon them, and in this case, they (the
sneezers) cannot blame anyone except themselves. For they are the ones who
caused themselves to lose the two blessings: the blessing of praising
Allah, and the blessing of their brother or sister's supplication for them
that is a result of the praising.
On the authority of Abu Musa (may Allah be
pleased with him) who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and
blessings be upon him) say, "If one of you sneezes and praises
Allah, then say to him, 'May Allah have mercy upon you.' But if he does
not praise Allah, then do not invoke Allah's mercy for him." (Muslim)
5. To Visit Them When They Are Sick
Visiting sick Muslims is highly encouraged.
This is based on a hadith qudsi, indicating that Allah would say to
His slaves on the Day of Judgment,
"My slave, I was sick and yet you did
not visit Me?" The slave would exclaim, "How can I visit You
when You are the Lord of the worlds?" Allah would answer, "Did
you not know that My slave so-and-so fell ill; don't You know that had
you visited him you would have found Me with him?" (Muslim)
`Ali ibn Abi Talib (May Allah be pleased with
him) reported: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be
upon him) say, "When a Muslim visits a sick Muslim at dawn,
seventy thousand angels keep on praying for him till dusk. If he visits
him in the evening, seventy thousand angels keep on praying for him till
the morning; and he will have (his share of) reaped fruits in Jannah
(Paradise)." (At-Tirmidhi)
On visiting their sick brothers and sisters,
Muslims are supposed to make du`aa' for them.
`A'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her)
reported: When the Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) visited any
ailing member of his family, he would touch the sick person with his
right hand and would supplicate, "O Allah! The Lord of mankind!
Remove this disease and cure (him or her)! You are the Great Curer.
There is no cure but through You, which leaves behind no disease."
(Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
6. To Follow Their Funerals When They Die
Following Muslims' funerals is one of their
rights upon their brethren. Those who follow the funeral until the
deceased's body is prayed over will receive great reward. And if they
follow the funeral procession until the body is buried, then they will
receive more reward. Following the funeral procession fulfills a right for
Allah, a right of the deceased, and a right of the living relatives of the
deceased.
Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him)
reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)
said, "Whoever follows the funeral procession and offers the
funeral prayer for it will get a reward equal to one qirat, and whoever
attends it till burial will get a reward equal to two qirats." It
was asked, "What are two qirats?'' He (peace and blessings be upon
him) replied, "Equal to two huge mountains." (Al-Bukhari
and Muslim)
Also, Muslims must keep good ties with the
deceased's family and take care of their needs. Here we would like to
clarify that women may offer the funeral prayer for their Muslim brothers
and sisters, but it is not a duty upon them. Offering the funeral prayer
is a fard kifayah (communal duty) on men. This means that it is a
duty for the Muslim community to perform that prayer. If a Muslim dies in
a community and some Muslims offer the funeral prayer for the deceased,
then the duty will be deemed as being discharged from every one else.
However, failing to offer such a prayer incurs sin on the whole community,
due to negligence. According to Imam Malik, women are allowed to follow
the funeral procession.
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** Wa'il `Abdel-Mut`aal Shihab
is the deputy managing editor of the IOL Shari`ah Department (English). He graduated from Al-Azhar University and got his master's from Al-Azhar in Islamic studies with a major in Islamic jurisprudence and its principles. He is working on his doctorate in the principles of Islamic jurisprudence. He writes occasionally for IslamOnline.net. You can reach him at
wael.shihab@iolteam.com.
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