Most young girls and boys unconsciously connect love to the
idea of the "illegal". Their parents probably had a wrong
notion of teaching modesty and politeness to their
children. In over emphasizing this value, they deprives
their children of the right to see even the smallest
gestures or hear those tine words of appreciation; human
notes that are necessary to the success of their relations
when they in turn become husbands and wives. Unaware of the
consequence, they take the easier choice of avoiding the
topic completely. With the usual lack of dialogues and
explanations, they unintentionally label human feelings as
taboo. As a result, their children will connect this sacred
feeling of warmth between husband and wife to "illegal"
movies and illicit relationships shown on television or
seen on dark streets. Naturally, you will rarely find a
young man expressing love or appreciation to his wife
although he might do so in a relationship outside marriage.
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